Atakhala nthawi ndi mwamuna wina, azimayi ena nthawi ina amazindikira kuti palibenso mnzake. Sakufuna kupitiliza ubalewo, amaumirira pamphepete. Kuneneratu zoterezi, muyenera kumvetsera mwa zizindikiro za malingaliro okhudzidwa.
Momwe Mungadziwire Kuti Chikondi Chatha:1. Kuzindikira kwambiri kupita kudera lakutali
Ngati ndizovuta kukumbukira pomwe zomwe ndimakonda ndi zomwe ndimakonda kwambiri zinali pachibwenzi, popeza wokondedwa wayamba kale, titha kunena mosavuta za kusakhalako. Ngakhale mutangoumiriza mogwirizana, Wosankhidwayo amapeza zifukwa zomveka zokana, ponena za masiku ovuta kwambiri kuntchito, kuchepa kwa nthawi, kusowa kwa tulo, kupweteka m'mimba, ndi zina zambiri.
2. Anayamba kukwiya ndipo nthawi zambiri amazungulira
Imakwiyitsidwa ndi pafupifupi chilichonse - tiyi wozizira, malaya okanidwa bwino, atagona pa sling stepper. Nthawi yomweyo, amaonetsa mwamphamvu kusalumpha ndi grure. Ngati munthu wokondedwayo asanadzilole mtima kuti akweze mawu achimwano, ndiye kuti posachedwa zidakhala zinthu zabwinobwino. Kwa theka lachiwiri kugwetsa tsopano lakhala ntchito yake mwachizolowezi.3. Panali kukayikira kuti zomwe amakonda adaleredwa mbali
Akazi safuna zizindikiro zodziwikiratu - amamva. Pafupifupi mayi aliyense wachichepere, yemwe amakhala zaka zingapo ndi mwamuna, angamvetsetse kuti wina ali nayo. Mwina sibwenzi watsopano, koma wokongoletsa ndi mnzanu watsopano, kulankhulana motherana ndi mnzako kuntchito. Pankhaniyi, muyenera kuwonetsetsa kuti muyang'ane foni yake, laputopu. Ngati izi ndi zoona, ndiye kuti ndibwino kuphwanya mgwirizano.
4. Kuyimitsidwa
Munthu wachikondi amachita zonse kuti theka lachiwiri lakhala lomasuka. Zidzathandiza pa moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, zidzathetsa mavuto am'banja kuti moyo wazovala bwino. Koma ngati malingaliro awonongedwa, mwamunayo asiya kuchita izi, kusiya Sampenk. Ndipo mumufunse kuti athandizidwe amakhala opanda ntchito - samachita.5. Samawonetsa chidwi pa moyo wawo
Adakali, pomwe mtsikanayo amazimiririka madzulo, komwe amayenda ndi atsikana kumapeto kwa sabata. Samayitanidwanso masana, sapempha madzulo, tsiku linadutsa. Mnzanu wosamusandulika zomwe zimachitika kuntchito theka lachiwiri, mapulasitiki, monga ali ndi malingaliro ake, momwe mulibe malo ake.
6. Kodi safuna kuyankhula za maubale komanso malingaliro akukangana
Zimakhulupirira kuti sikuyenera kusamalira ndikugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yovuta. Kwa munthu, zonsezi m'mbuyomu, koma amawopa ngakhale kuvomereza. Komabe, izi zidzachitika posachedwa - pomwe wokondedwa watsopano adzakumana panjira yake. Kuti akhazikitse ubale ndi iye, ayenera kuthyola mgwirizano wakale. Ngati zizindikilo zonsezi zawonekera kale, kupulumutsa chibwenzi chachedwa kale. Ndipo kodi mungachite izo? Mwina zingakhale zosavuta kufalitsa mwamtendere komanso kulankhulana wina ndi mnzake ngati anzanu akale.