Anzathu onse ogwira ntchito akhala akukwatirana kale, ndipo mumakhalabe mwa atsikana? Mukufuna kukondana ndi mwamuna koma sindikudziwa choti ndichite? Palibe ntchito yolondola yokha ndi yoyenera kuti mukondane ndi munthu. Khalani monga muliri. Njira zathu zikuthandizira kuti mugonjetse mtima wake ndikuuzeni ku cholinga.
Musanachitepo kanthu, dziwani za izi: zomwe amachita, pali msungwana wokondedwa, mkazi ndi ana. Mwamuna wokwatiwa sadzalumikizana mosavuta. Ndipo mumangokhumudwa. Njira 10 zomwe zingathandize kugwa mchikondi ndi munthu 1. Khalani mkazi wodekha komanso wopangidwa bwino. Amuna, choyamba, samalani ndi akazi okongola omwe amatsatira chiwerengero chawo, osanyalanyaza kuyenda kwa ojambula, omwe akunyoza tsitsi, amasamalira manja awo ndikupanga mavalidwe. Valani zidendene ndi zokongoletsera kuwonjezera chithunzi chanu. Palibe zingwe zokhala ndi mivi ndikuyika lacquer pa misomali. Zachidziwikire, izi zimafuna ndalama zambiri, koma ndizofunika. Muyenera kuwoneka ngati kuti abambo kuchokera kwa inu musakhale ndi diso, ndipo ena adasefukira. Amuna amawaona kuti opambana pali zokongola zenizeni pafupi ndi iwo. 2. Nthawi zonse kumwetulira ndikukhala ndi moyo. Kumwetulira kochokera pansi pamtima ndi kuwunika - njira yabwino yokopera munthu. Amakonda kulankhulana ndi azimayi achimwemwe omwe amamvera nkhani zake zonse komanso nthabwala zake. Kuseka nthabwala zake, ngakhale atawamva kale. Kumwetulira kokwanira ndi kopatsa chidwi kumwetulira kumakopa wokondedwa. 3. Chithunzi chachikazi. Khalani aulemu komanso okongola. Musamusonyeze mwanzeru zilizonse zomwe zingachitike. Munthu aliyense ali ndi mfundo, koma sayenera kukhala wonyozeka kwambiri, kapena kusungulumwa kwanu. 4. Dziwani zomwe amalota. Mwamuna ayenera kumva pafupi ndi inu. Kukambirana kosavuta nthawi yokwiyitsa ndikubwera kwa icho mukamalankhula mitu yayikulu ndipo ali ndi chidwi ndi maloto ake komanso zosangalatsa. Ngati zikuwoneka kwa inu kuti malotowo sadzakwaniritsidwa, sungani. Mwina adapeza mnzake weniweni ndipo akufuna kucheza nanu kachiwiri. 5. Musaphe malingaliro osaka mu njonda. Mkazi akakhala mchikondi, zimakhala zovuta kukhala chosapezeka. Ngati mwadzipangitsa kukhala ndi chidwi chanu, mumuphunzitse pang'ono. Ndiuzeni kuti amakhala kuntchito ndipo simudzatha kubwera tsiku, pitani ku zisudzo ndi atsikana kapena kukhala ndi zina. Pambuyo pake, adzayamba kufulusa ndi ntchito, abwenzi ndipo adzatopetsa. Koma musachite zambiri: zothamanga pafupipafupi ndi masiku, ntchito yokhazikika imathanso kusokoneza ubale wina. Munthu ndi mlenje, ayambe kukusaka. 6. Cholingana ndi malingaliro kwa wokondedwa amatha kuwona motalika. Momwemonso ndi inu kufikira maso anu akukumana. Kukambirana koteroko ndi maso kukupatsani mphamvu pa abambo. Yesani kulowa mu mzimu. Monga mukudziwa, malingaliro a akazi amasokera ndi amawakopa. 7. Ndiwe talente yeniyeni! Kukondana ndi bambo wina, nkudana ndi maluso akeMutha kumupempha kuti akamuchezere ndikudya chakudya chamadzulo, motero adzaona kuti ndi mmisiri wabwino uti womwe muli kukhitchini. Apatseni mwayi kuti awone maluso anu onse. Njira yofikira pamtima ya munthu silikhala kudzera m'mimba. Mwina mumachita masewera olimbitsa thupi kuti musunge migodi - mumuwonetse. Sonyezani zaluso ndikupeza njira zosungira wokondedwa wanu wanu. 8. Mlongo-chidwi samanena chilichonse mwachangu za inu. Ikani, siyani zinsinsi zina pamsonkhano wina. Khalani mzimayi wachinsinsi, osawonetsa malingaliro anu pasadakhale, pomwe owopa savomereza kuti azikonda. Osalankhula za anyamata anu akale. Sizokayikitsa kuti zidzakhala zosangalatsa kwa iye. Mutha kupeza china chofanana pakati panu, chomwe chingayambitse bwino ndipo chidzakulolani kuti mukhale pafupi. Palibenso chifukwa chochepetsera zambiri kuti mukondane ndi munthu. Khazikani mtima pansi! 9. pemphani thandizo. Amuna amakonda kumva kufunika kwawo. Funsani thandizo kapena upangiri, kuti muwonetse momwe mungayamikire. Zilibe kanthu kuti - kukonza foni, kompyuta, kunyamula pepala kuti mukonzekere, tengani galuyo vet kapena kuyendetsa mgalimoto. Patsogolo ndi iye ka kanthu kalikonse kalikonse, koma osatero. Kupanda kutero, adzaganiza kuti simungathetse chilichonse. 10. Mpatseni zomwe akufuna. Yamikirani mnzanu wa muukwati wanu munthawi yofooka komanso amaphonya. Mukakhala owolowa manja kwambiri pothokoza, zili bwino. Phunzirani kuzindikira ndi kutamanda mbali zake zabwino. Lemekezani okondedwa anu ndi abwenzi ake ndipo musamuchepetse ufulu. Amuna sakonda pamene tiyitanitsa mphindi zisanu zilizonse zoponyera ndikufunsa komwe iwo, omwe, etc. Asiyeni akhale ndi abwenzi, adzamva kuti ndi mkazi wabwino bwanji kwa iye. Kumbukirani kuti amuna sakonda mkhalidwe wonyansa komanso atsikana achikondi omwe akuyembekezera mphatso zotsika mtengo kuchokera kalonga pa kavalo woyera. Gwiritsani ntchito njira zodabwitsazi ndipo mudzatha kutuluka popanda mavuto, chithumwa komanso mwachikondi zimakondana ndi munthu kwa moyo wanu wonse.