Mwina sichiri chinsinsi kwa aliyense yemwe wina yemwe amamuthandiza kwambiri ndi amene amadziwa kumvera. Ndipo kunyumba, ngati mukukambirana ndi theka lanu lakuda, ndizovuta - pambuyo pa zonse, muyenera kumvetsera kuti amve kuti amvetsetsa kuti amvetsetsa.
Wotchedwa "Kumva chisoni" ndi luso lofunikira kwambiri paubwenzi wolimba, chifukwa umathandiza kuti mnzake azimva kusamalira komanso kumvetsetsa. Tiyeni timupatse mphindi zisanu ndi chimodzi za momwe mungasonyezere chikondi kwa wokondedwa wanu akafuna kugawana malingaliro ake1. Malangizo - Nkhani Yotsogola
Osayesa kuthetsa vutoli kapena kupereka upangiri, ngati izi sizinafunsidwe mwachindunji za izi. Nthawi zina anthu amangofuna kuti amvepo ndikumva momwe akumvera. Wina akandipweteka, amafunika kumvera chisoni, osati upangiri. Zachidziwikire, nthawi yomweyo pamakhala chidwi chofuna kuthandiza munthu wokondedwa, koma khonsolo silingakhale zomwe munthu uyu ayenera kukhala pakadali pano. Amuna amakonda kuthana ndi mavuto, koma ndikofunikira kumvetsera vutoli.
2. Kuleza mtima Kokha!
Khalani oleza mtima ndipo osakhumudwa ngati mnzakeyo sangathe kunena kuti akumva.Nthawi zina munthu amatenga nthawi kuti apeze mawu ofotokoza zomwe akumva. Kukhala chete ndi kuleza mtima kumathandiza anthu kufotokozera zakukhosi kwawo.
3. Mphamvu Mwamphamvu
Musatenge mphamvu za mnzanuyo "ku akaunti yanu." Ndi malingaliro ake ndipo sizimagwirizana ndi zanu. Chifundo chimatanthauza kukhazikitsidwa kwamphamvu kwa wokondedwa wawo momwe alili.
4. Kumbukirani - simunagawidwe
Osateteza osati kukwiya pomwe mnzakeyo akuwonetsa momwe mukukhudzidwira. Siziyenera kutsutsidwa. Tiyenera kupatsa mnzanu kuti afotokozere zomwe ndimakumana nazo popanda kusokoneza. Padzakhala nthawi ina, yabwino kwambiri yonena izi. Nthawi zina zimakhala zofunikira kufunsa kuti: "Kodi nditha kufotokozera mwakachetechete? Ndiyenera kukambirana za chinthu chomwe chimandivuta. "5. "Kumva Kumva"
Gwiritsani ntchito zomwe amatchedwa "kumva zowonetsa", njira yomwe imapangitsa munthu wina kuganiza kuti amamusamalira. Wina akanena kuti: "Ndikumvetsa kuti kukupweteketsa iwe pakadali pano." Kapena "Ndidamva kuti mulibe nthawi yophweka," bwenzi limangoganiza kuti anganene zambiri zavutoli. Akati: "Sindikumvetsa chifukwa chake ukuona kuti" kapena "sunandimveke bwino," ndiye kuti mnzakeyo adatseka.
6. Chisamaliro Pakati
Muzimvera chisoni ngati mnzakeyo akhumudwitseni, koma sakuyembekezera chisoni. Chisoni chimatha kupangitsa kuti kumvekere kapena kusamalirana, komanso chisamaliro chenicheni - ayi.
Akatswiri amisala nthawi zambiri amapereka kwa param "homuweki" kuti azichita mphindi zisanu patsiku "Kumva mascotum". Mnzake ndikunena zinazake za mnzake B. Mwachitsanzo: "Ndimayamika chakudya chachikulu chomwe mudakonzekera" kapena "mumathandizira homuweki yanu bwino." Pambuyo pake, mnzakeyo akuti chinthu chimodzi choyipa. Mwachitsanzo, "Ndikufuna kuti muthandizire kuyeretsa nyumba" kapena "Ndikufuna kukusambitsa ana madzulo." Pakadali pano, mnzakeyo akuti, Wobverayo akumvetsera. Kenako mnzakeyo b amanena kuti ndi wina wabwino komanso wosautsa, pomwe mnzakeyo akumvetsera. Pambuyo pake, ndizosatheka kukambirana zomwe zanenedwazo.
Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kumeneku kumakupatsani mwayi woti mufotokozere pang'onopang'ono moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, kuti asadziunjike, ndikupanga khoma pakati pa awiriwo.