Akatswiri amisala amaimira mitundu isanu yosintha, pomwe iliyonse ili ndi zophunzitsira zake zokha. Kudziwa za iwo, mutha kupewa kusakhulupirika kwa wokondedwa wanu, kulibwino kuphunzira mnzanu.
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Kwa wosowa wamtunduwu ndi wa iwo amene ali ndi mavuto amoyo, koma akhuta ndi malingaliro, mabuku omwewo. Khalidwe silili lolondola kwa mtundu wofanana wotere, yemwe amasamukira nthawi zonse.
Ponena za kukonzanso mabuku, nthawi zambiri amapeza anthu omwe amafufuza mwadala zotere, ndipo anthu ochepa okha ndi omwe amakokedwa ndi zomwezo.
Malo osinthanitsa nkhani zambiri - zosangalatsa zonse zimakhazikika mu maubale oterowo - zochitika zatsopano, anthu atsopano, mavuto onse amangokhala mumzinda wina. Anthu amatha kumasula kwathunthu pansi pa zomwe zimachitika. Chikondi chidzamalizidwa kumapeto kwa tchuthi, ndipo palibe amene angadziwe za ubalewo.
Mwezi Uli Wotsutsa
Chiwengo chonchi chimachitika pomwe mnzakeyo amachititsa chikhumbo chofuna kupopera chosankhidwa. Nthawi zambiri, kusakhulupirika koteroko sikuchitidwa, sikungokhala kokha, koma mwachiwonekere - munthu amayang'ana mwachisoni chiweto, kenako zonse zimaperekedwa ku thumba la muluwo.
Zochita za chipolowe ichi ndichakuti pambuyo pa zomwe zakwaniritsidwa, wophunzirayo sadziipitsa, ndipo adasamutsa udindo wonse kwa wokondedwa wake "adabweretsa" kwa mkhalidwe wotere.
Chiwembu mwa njira yomalizira ubalewo
Zinthu ngati izi ndi pamene ubalewo utatopa kwambiri, koma wopenda zifukwa zowamaliza, ayi. Nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti yemwe ali nawo yemwe ali naye pachiyanjano samazindikira ngakhale kuti zonse zili zoyipa kwambiri, chifukwa muzovuta zoterezi zinthu zoterezi zimathetsedwa ndikugawana nawo, ngati palibe chomwe sichingakhazikike. Koma akaganiza zothetsa chilichonse ndipo samagwera m'mawuwo, ndikosavuta kuti iye adzetse chiweto.
Ndizoseketsa, koma ngakhale kutopa kwa maubale ndipo ndikufuna kuwaletsa, osakhulupirira omwe adalengezanso safuna kutenga udindo pazomwe zikuchitika, kotero ziyembekezo zachinsinsi zomwe mnzake amaphunzira pa Gap. Kupereka mtundu uwu nthawi zambiri kumakhala umunthu wadyera komanso waulesi womwe amayesetsa kupewa mikangano komanso zokambirana zolakwika zilizonse zilizonse.
Chisoni Chotsatira Chikondwerero cha Chiwerewere
Gawo ili limaphatikizaponso chisangalalo chotenga nawo mbali kwa amayi osavuta. Poterepa, tikunena za akazi wamba, omwe nthawi zonse amapeza chowiringula chifukwa cha kusakhulupirira kwawo. Kwa kugonana kwina ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo, osakhala ndi moyo, chifukwa ena ndi njira yodzitsimikizira. Koma zilizonse zomwe zimayambitsa zomwe zikuchitika ndizabwino.
Ndipo pambali pa munthu wolaula ndi wokwera mtengo - silingasinthe kale, ndipo nthambi zokha ndi nthambi zidzakhala nyanga za mnzake.
Chiwembu chofuna kukopa chidwi cha wokondedwayo
Uyu ndiye chochita choopsa kwambiri cha onse, chomwe chimanenedweratu, ndipo funso lalikulu ndikhale munthu wolanda ali wotseguka kapena watsekedwa. Zowona, mulimonsemo, modifie amakhala m'malo otayika. Ngati wowetayo watsegulidwa, ndiye kuti mnzakeyo atamva zomwe zikuchitika, koma, amachepetsa zonse pa wosankhidwa wake, koma sadzachepetsa ubale, m'malo mwake, m'malo mwake. Ndi chinyengo chachinsinsi, mnzanuyo sadzadziwa chilichonse, sichimakopa chidwi chake kenako n'lo?
Iwo amene akufuna kukopa chidwi cha wokondedwa, akatswiri azamisala amalangiza kuti asapitirire kuti asatengeke pazinthu zolaula ngati zoterezi. 'Kudzuka "bwenzi likhala lokopeka ndi nsanje, lomwe lidzadzetse nsanje.
Koma malangizowa ndi munthu payekha ndipo amadalira mawonekedwe a munthu. Ngati mnzake ali ndi nsanje kwambiri, mwachitsanzo, izi zimangokwiyitsa, zimayambitsa kuvuta ndipo zimatha kupumula maubwenzi. Chifukwa chake, ngakhale m'mbuyo mwachidwi mbali ndiyofunika kugwiritsa ntchito kusamala ndikuyamba ndi "Mlingo" yaying'ono.