Amuna okongola amakopa oyimira moyenera. Sizikudabwitsa, chifukwa munthu wokongola yemwe anali wofunika kwambiri mdziko lino lapansi, popeza mawonekedwe owoneka bwino amayambitsa kuvomerezedwa ndi kudalirika. Koma pali zikhulupiriro zokhudza kukongola kwa amuna momwe kuli bwino osakhulupirira kuti musakhumudwitse pasadakhale.
1. Amuna okongola, monga lamulo, njira zina
Chifukwa chiyani anthu awa adatenga? Ngati pali amuna angapo ndipo alipo pamalumikizidwe osadziwika, izi sizitanthauza kuti ali kwathunthu ndipo pafupi adzangolumbiridwa kokha kwa oimira awo. Onani osewera anu okoma mtima, ochita sewero, oyimba. Ambiri aiwo ali okwatirana komanso achinyengo sanawone.
2. Kudumpha, odzikuza ndi ma booms
Amuna okongola amadziwa kuti ndi okongola, motero amaphatikizidwa, odzikuza ndi grubians. Amadziwa kuti anena zabwino. Zonsezi zimatengera kukongola, koma kuchokera pakuleredwa. Zachidziwikire, ngati mwana uja adauziridwa kuti ndiye mfumu yadziko lapansi ndipo imatha kuvutitsa mwaulemu komanso anzeru, sizodabwitsa kuti amakhulupirira nthawi yomweyo.
3. Wovelaesi
Amuna okongola amakhala ndi banja kapena ubale wolimba, koma chifukwa cholumikizana. Chithunzi cha Macho Nthawi Yachulukizira, ngakhale ambiri aiwo ndi alueli ndipo sadzagwiritsa ntchito kukongola kwawo kwa htm monga momwe kungathekere. Pakumva unyamata aliyense amasintha mnzakeyo, koma kukhwima adzaumitsidwa ndipo adzasankha Yemweyo. Ndipo ngakhale ndi wokongola kapena wowoneka bwino. Umunthu wamphongo ndi. Ngakhale, zachidziwikire, kwa amuna okongola satsika chifukwa cha mafani ndikusangalala.
4. Amuna okongola siabwino kwambiri pa moyo
Kupusa kwina. Kukongola kwamphamvu sikulumikizidwe. Aliyense amene wakhudzidwa, munthu wamkulu sakhala ngati wachinyamata wolakwika, ndipo amafuna kuti aliyense azizungulira. Mwamuna weniweni wodziyimira pawokha ndi zakunja adzayandikiranso funso lililonse, ndipo osatha, ngati kuti palibe chomwe chingachite chilichonse.
5. Amuna okongola ali bwino komanso olungama
Ndipo sizolondola. Aliyense amayesetsa kwambiri kukhala amene ali. Maso okongola sathandiza aliyense. Maonekedwe adzaonedwa mu bungwe lotsogola, koma wothandiziralo la magetsi kapena woyang'anira mabungwe amagwira ntchito molimbika komanso molimbika kuti apange ulamulirowo mu niche awo. Zolakwa zilizonse sizikhululuka kuti ndi okongola ndi chivundikirocho.
Kukongola kwa mwamuna ndi mphatso yomwe iwo, mwatsoka, sadziwa kuti aliyense amadziwa kukula. Anthu okongola, amayang'ana ndi kusilira, amadziwuza kuti alibe mikhalidwe yopanda, kuchuluka kwa chipembedzo wamba. Koma anthu onse ndi osiyana, monganso akazi.