Ali wokwatiwa, ali wokwatiwa: momwe mungakhalire ogombengo achikondi

Awiri akakondana wina ndi mnzake, palibe malo achitatu - amalankhula nzeru za anthu. Koma zimachitika kuti akwatiwe, ndipo ali wokwatiwa. Ndipo onse omwe ali nawo m'chikondi ichi "quadlangle" sikuti nthawi zonse mosangalala, koma kukayikira kangapo, kuvutika ndi mavuto.

Malinga ndi akatswiri azamankhwala, munthu amatha kukonda anthu awiri komanso ochulukirapo nthawi yomweyo ndipo palibe chowopsa. Mutha kukhudzika kwa mnzanuyo, ndipo ngati ndikadakonda, koma ngati ndili pabanja, ndipo ndi wokwatiwa "ndi chikondi choletsedwa chomwe sichivomerezedwa ndi anthu.

Kodi anthu amalimbikitsa anthu kuti agwirizane ndi chiyani?

1. Itha kukhala chikondi chatsopano, msonkhano watsopano watsopano. Anthu sangathe kukoka wina ndi mnzake. Kapenanso, chikondi chakale chimakumana, ndipo malingaliro amawonekeranso.

2. Kukhala pachibwenzi pachibwenzi kumangidwa, monga lamulo, pamene china chake chikusowa kwambiri. Ndi okwatirana amamanga chizolowezicho, ana, nyumba, koma osamvetsetsa.

3. Kufuna kusiyanasiyana kwa moyo wam'maganizo komanso kugonana. Maukwati ovomerezeka anali osakhazikika. Ndipo ndikufuna zosemphana. Maubwenzi achilengedwe amatha kuchedwetsa ndikupita mu chizolowezichi.

4. Kukwiya kwakale ndi banja. Kufunitsitsa kubwezera chiwembu. Koma nthawi zambiri azimayi amati: Ndili ndi mwamuna wabwino. Ndimamulemekeza ndipo ndiye Tate wa ana anga, koma sindingathe kundichitira chilichonse. Ndipo amuna amaphimbidwa chifukwa choti sangathe kuponya ana awo.

Maubwenzi oterowo akachedwetsedwa, kusamvana kumachitika mosavuta, osati mu ubale wabanja, komanso m'moyo wake. Chilichonse chomwe chiwembu chomwe chiwembu chomwe chichita chiwembu chinaonedwa, chomwe kuperekera kapena pambuyo pake chidzatsegulira banja lalamulo. Zidzakweza nthawi yosankha: Kupewa kuwononga banja kapena kupitilizabe kudzakhala ndi moyo wopereka ngongole? Amayi amakulirakulira kukumana ndi izi. Kodi ndizotsetsereka kwambiri kuti zizisintha moyo, koma kodi munthu wosankhidwa watsopano angakhale bambo wake wabwino? Kaya asunge kukhulupirika, chifukwa ubale ndi itha kukhala chidwi. Imatha kutseguka ndi mwamuna wake, ndipo pa woyamba wa Wosankhidwa sangamutsatire.

Mulimonsemo, kukhala motere kukhala osangalala komanso chitonthozo chamkati, simungathe kuchita bwino. Mudzathamangitsidwa kumverera kwa chipani cha "Phwando".

Ndipo tisanapange chisankho, muyenera kuganizira bwino kuganiza ngati muli "paubwenzi ndi". Mwina taganizirani za momwe mungapangitse ubale ndi wokwatirana naye?