Makina owonetsera TV achikondi kapena magazini amagona nthawi zonse ndikugona ndi upangiri pazomwe zimakondana. Koma chowonadi ndichakuti ngati mungachotse magalasi a pinki, ndiye kuti machitidwe oterewa adzakhala owopsa.
1. Mnzake wansanje - mnzake wogwira ntchito
Nthawi yomweyo kumbukirani axiom imodzi: Okondedwa si katundu. Ndi munthu wodziyimira pawokha wokhala ndi moyo, woposa mmodzi wa wanu.Ngati mnzakeyo amakhala nsanje nthawi zonse, akhumudwitsidwa ndi moyo wake "wolekanitsidwa" womwewo. Ndipo mkwiyo uwu ndi mkwiyo sugwirizana konse ndi zachikondi. Izi zikuchitika kokha ndi kupulumutsa wopulumutsa yekha. " Wogwira ntchito ansanje ndi munthu amene akufuna kudzipatula wokondedwa wake. Amafuna kuti dziko latcheza kuti lizithamangira pafupi ndi Iye, popanda malo kwa abwenzi kapena abale.
2. Palibe malire - chizindikiro cha kuyandikira
Choyamba muyenera kumvetsetsa tanthauzo la malire. M'malo mwake, iyi ndi autilaini ya zomwe ndimakonda ndipo sindimakonda munthu. Izi zingaphatikizepo zochita ndi mawu. Lemekezani chimango cha munthu wina - limatanthawuza kuthekera komvera mnzanu kuti asachite zomwe sizili bwino kwa munthu wapamtima.
Ndipo ziribe kanthu kuti TV imatsimikizira, zolemba ndi maupangiri kapena abwenzi, chimango chogwirizana (ngakhale achikondi kwambiri) ndizofunikira. Mwachilengedwe, tikulankhula za kuvomerezana ndi zomwe sizivomerezedwa.
3. Kugunda kokhazikika kwa chiwongola dzanja - chizindikiro cha kukondera
Zochitika, makanema ndi mabuku omwe amadziwika kuti ali ndi vuto la okwatirana, omwe nthawi zonse amamenyera nkhondo, amaphwanya, kenako ndikubwereza njirayi mobwerezabwereza. Ndiye chifukwa cha "chemistry" pakati pa anthu: Sangaletse mikangano, koma sangathe kusiya kukopa wina ndi mnzake. Maubwenzi oterowo nthawi zambiri amatsutsa zodekha komanso "zokonda", zomwe nthawi zonse zimathandizirana. Moyo woterewu uyenera kukhala wosangalatsa, chifukwa alibe mikangano.Choyamba, palibe awiri omwe alibe mikangano konse. Kachiwiri, nthawi zonse kutsata kusamvana kwa zofuna za wokondedwa wawo sikwakulu. Mwachilengedwe, sizokhudza kuti simudzafunikira kukangana ndi wokondedwa wanu. Ndikosatheka kunyamula ndodo ndikumachita nthawi zonse.
4. Ochenjera amakhumudwitsidwa wina ndi mnzake, chifukwa ali pafupi kwambiri kwa wina ndi mnzake.
Pali chikhulupiriro chodziwika kuti anthu apamtima ndi omwe amatha kupweteka kwambiri. Izi zitha kukhala zoona. Mapeto ake, munthu wapamtima kwa inu, mwayi waukulu kuti akudziwa mawu omwe angakhale nawo. Koma izi sizitanthauza kuti ndi chizindikiro cha kuyankhanso mawu ofanana.
Nthawi zambiri zonsezi zimawona momwe milandu ya TV ingaonere zinthu, zomwe, pamene iwo amadziwa bwino bwino, zimavulaza alongo awo. Akuti, izi zonse zomwe zanenedwa pakudzigwekera ngati anthu sangathe kudziletsa. Koma chowonadi ndichowonadi kuti amatha kuwongolera zomwe ananena.
Ndikofunika kuganiza za izi monga chonchi: Aliyense akanakhala woleza mtima, mogwirizana ndi wokondedwa wake ndi alendo. Komabe, izi zikachitika, pazifukwa zina sakhala chikhumbo chofuna kufuula mwamphamvu. Uku ndikudziletsa, ndizo zonse.
Awo. Lankhulani zinthu zomvetsa chisoni - siziri kumbali zonse za kukondwerera. Ichi ndi chizindikiro chomveka bwino.
Maanja amanyoza ndikuchititsa manyazi anzawo. Umu ndi njira yawo yowononga chidaliro cha mnzanuyo kuganiza kuti siabwino kukhala ndi munthu wina. Ndipo palibe chikondi mu izi. Ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa - zomwe aliyense akuyesera kufotokozera momwe achikondi amavulaza.