Ubwenzi ndi chinthu chamtengo wapatali kwambiri, koma sizipindulitsa nthawi zonse, ndipo zonse sizomwe zimakhala paubwenzi, zomwe ndi zachikhalidwe mosavomerezeka. Tiyenera kuyamikiridwa, koma nthawi zina ngakhale paubwenzi wautali kwambiri komanso "wamphamvu" womwe mukufuna kuyikapo. Zabwino ngati muubwenzi wanu ndi bwenzi / bwenzi lanu pali china chake kuchokera pamndandanda womwe uli pansipa.
Pambuyo polankhulana ndi bwenzi / bwenzi, mawonekedwe anu amagwa
Sife pazinthuzi zomwe munthu akamuchitira zachisoni komanso mwachitapo kanthu, ndasiya kusangalala. Ndimaona kuti zochitika zoyipa zimakhala bwenzi lanu nthawi zonse. Mwachitsanzo, mwadzidzidzi munaona kuti mutatha kulumikizana ndi bwenzi, pang'onopang'ono mumayamba kudzidalira - nthawi zonse, zimangonena kuti aliyense, ndi zinthu zina.Kwa bwenzi lanu, ndinu "khutu", lomwe limadzithamangitsidwa nthawi zonse
Akim machitidwe munthu amene amathandizira kukwaniritsa zosowa zake za Narcissism, ndipo izi zimadziwika makamaka m'mabwenzi azimayi. Koma kwenikweni, ngakhale pali "malingaliro" a moyo wa mnzawo, amayesetsa kudzikhumba ndi zokambirana. Mwina sakayikira zokhudzana ndi mwamuna wake, ndipo mwina ali wokwatiwa kapena kwa nthawi yayitali sizipanga ziganizo zake - pakhoza kukhala zifukwa zambiri. Mulimonsemo, munthu, kotero Yaro akuwonetsa mbali zabwino za moyo wake, kuyesera kubisa chisokonezo chawo chauzimu.
Mnzake nthawi zonse amapereka maupangiri am'magulu, ankhanza komanso ovuta
Nthawi zambiri, machitidwe oterewa ndi omwe ali muubwenzi. Ndiye, mwachitsanzo, mukakumana ndi anzanu nthawi zonse pamakhala m'magulu nthawi zonse. Ndipo mungakondwere bwanji kwa iye? Anapita mbali zonse zinayi! " Atsikana oterowo amakhala ndi mwayi wokhala ndi maubale ndi mabanja, ndipo palibe bwenzi labwino lomwe lidzadzetse chilichonse chabwino.Kwa bwenzi lomwe mumasewera ntchito ya psythetherapist
Ngati aliyense wa misonkhano yanu kapena kulankhulana pafoni ili ngati gawo lachipembedzo, ichi ndi chizindikiro china kuti ubwenzi watopa. Kodi inu mungoyenera kukhala ndi bwenzi, munditonthoze ndi kutontholetsa? Sizabwino. Wina anganene kuti: "Ubwenzi ukhale wofunikira chifukwa cha izi?". M'njira zonse, ndalama zimafunikira - zomwe zikugwirizana pakati pa "tengani ndikupereka".
Ngati nkhani zanu zokhudzana ndi mavuto, kuchokera kumbali ya bwenzi losalekeza kuti: "Inde, osadandaula, inenso ndidalipo," zitha kungolankhula za chinthu chimodzi - chidwi chonse chomwe amangoyang'ana. Samasamala zomwe zimakuchitikirani, ndipo amakugwiritsani ntchito ngati chovala. Chifukwa chake, limbikirani kwambiri chidwi, dziwani kuti mumayamikiridwa, nthawi yanu ndi kusankha anzanu mosamala.
Bwenzi likukufunirani nthawi yonse yaulere yomwe mudakhala naye
Khalidwe lotere muubwenzi limatchulidwa pakati pa achinyamata, koma anthu akuluakulu amakumana ndi izi nthawi zambiri. Pano pali kuphwanya malire omveka bwino - mnzake akuyesera kuwongolera gawo lanu lililonse: "Mukupita kuti? Ndipo liti? Ndi ndani? Chifukwa chiyani mukupita kumeneko? Ndipo bwanji sunandiimbire ndi ine? " - Uwu ndi hypercontrol, koma osati ubale.
Ubwenzi womwe umakoka pansi
Munthu aliyense ali ndi zizolowezi zoipa, si onse a iwo owopsa kuwasamalira. Koma ngati mnzanu akutsogolera moyo wosayenera, safuna kukulitsa ndikukhala ngati munthu wabwinobwino, ndipo inu, mukakhala m'gulu lake momwe mukumvera pafupi naye - kuthamangitsidwa ndi iye. Pakadali pano, chidziwitso chilipobe ndipo osakhazikitsanso chilichonse.Ubwenzi wanu sunalimbikitsidwenso, ndipo muli ndi mfundo zosiyana ndi malingaliro.
Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazomwezi muubwenzi suyenera kuyimitsidwa kwambiri - ndikokwanira kungochepetsa pang'onopang'ono kulumikizana ndi misonkhano kwa misonkhano ndi zochepa. Simufunikira kunyalanyaza munthu, kubisala kwa iye - pakulankhula mokambirana, lolani mayankho mwachidule komanso momwe mungayankhire nokha kuti musapeze ma calaogs nthawi yayitali. Njirayi imakhala yopweteka, koma ubale weniweni pakati pa anthu osiyana kwambiri sangagwire ntchito.
Mnzanu wakupereka ndipo amachita zachinyengo
Zochitika zapamwamba muubwenzi wamkazi ndi bwenzi ndipo ndikuyesera kutsimikizira kuti ndiwokongola, wokongola, wanzeru komanso waluso kuposa inu. Ndipo kotero kuti umboni uwu umafotokozedwa monga momwe angathere, umayesera kukopa chidwi cha chibwenzi chanu / amuna anu. Ndipo ngati machitidwe awo ndi owona mtima kwanu, sikophweka kulingalira zomwe zingakhale kumbuyo kwanu.Mnzake ndi malo osadziwika omwe ali m'banjamo
Kuyenda m'banja lanu, kusokonekera, bwenzi lotere nthawi ndi nthawi nthawi zonse kumakhetsa mwamuna wake ndikuyamba kuwonetsa kuti amamuyang'anira. Mwachitsanzo: "Mukumlirira bwanji zochuluka? Muli ndi yabwino kwambiri! ". Pankhaniyi, bwenzi limatsogolera kuphwanya kobisika - akuyesetsa kuonetsa kuti ake ndi apamwamba, omwe sikuti amakhala ndi ubale weniweni.
Bwenzi limakana nthawi iliyonse mukapempha thandizo
Mtsikanayo akamathandiza nthawi zonse, koma nthawi zina samatha kuthandiza - izi ndizabwinobwino. Koma ngati wotsogozedwa ndi mnzake, pali munthu amene ali "wotanganidwa" sadzabweranso chifukwa cha ndalama, koma motsogozedwa ndi iye.