Ib yam nkaus, qee zaum npaj tau rau cov teeb meem tsis txaus.
Tsis ntev los no, nrog tus niam nruab nrab peb tau mus noj su hauv McDonalds. Kuv muab txoj cai rau nws caw mus rau ib lub tsev noj mov hauv ib lub zos, thiab thaum kawg peb tau muab tawm mus nyob ntawd. Peb sib tham txog lub tsev kawm ntawv, nws cov phooj ywg tshiab thiab lub superheroes, thiab tom qab ntawd nws mam li nco dheev raug hlawv Bladed Polangamburger thiab nug:
- NIAM, thiab koj hlub leej twg ntxiv, kuv, Stanley lossis Edward?
Cov lus nug classic, kuv tau hnov nws thawj zaug, txij li tus Txwj Laug yeej tsis tau nug txog nws, tab sis tus yau dua tseem nyob deb ntawm lub tswv yim zoo li ntawd.
Thiab tom qab ntawd kuv tau ua tsaug rau cov phau ntawv hais txog cov Upbringing uas kuv tau nyeem. Cia ntau ya tawm ntawm lub taub hau, tab sis qhov pib - tsis txhob hais "Kuv hlub koj tib yam" - fastened khov kho.
Txawm hais tias qee zaum nws tau xub xav nws zoo li kuv hais tias qhov no yog cov lus teb tshaj plaws thiab yog. "Koj txhua tus zoo ib yam rau kuv rau kuv thiab rau txiv, cov menyuam yaus nyob hauv peb lub neej thiab peb tsis tau sib txawv," nws yuav zoo li, muaj peev xwm xaiv tau, uas tshwm nyob rau hauv txoj haujlwm sib luag.
Tab sis, nws hloov tawm mus ua egocentric, thiab cov lus nug ntawm kev ncaj ncees thiab cov kwv tij ntawm kev ncaj ncees thiab cov kwv tij, thaum lawv nug cov lus nug ntawm niam txiv kev hlub, ua rau lawv tsawg kawg.
Nws hloov tawm tias thaum ib tug menyuam nug tias: "Koj nyiam leej twg, leej twg, kuv xav hnov nws tus kheej nkaus xwb, hais txog nws txoj kev xav thiab cov kev xav uas koj tau hnov raws nraim.
Thiab raws li kev hwm rau kuv los ntawm tus sau cov kws sau ntawv, Adel Faber thiab Ellen Mazlish, sib luag ntawm cov menyuam yaus sau lawv qhov tseem ceeb thiab txawm tias ua rau lawv pom. Raws li cov khoom noj yuav xav hauv phau ntawv "cov kwv tij thiab cov muam. Yuav pab koj cov menyuam nyob ua ke li cas "lawv tau coj keeb kwm luv luv.
"Tus poj niam hluas hloov mus rau nws tus txiv thiab kev thov kom tsis npaj txhij txog:
- Thiab leej twg koj nyiam dua, kuv lossis koj niam?
"Kuv hlub koj tib yam," Tus txiv teb cov lus teb thiab sau cov teeb meem loj.
Nws yuav tsum hais tias: "Niam yog kuv niam. Thiab koj amazing, tus poj niam zoo nkauj uas kuv xav nyob tas kuv lub neej. "
Yog li ntawd nrog cov menyuam yaus, thaum peb tham txog kev sib luag thiab "ntawm lawv txoj kev xav, peb sib luag rau cov menyuam yaus thiab tsis pub lawv tus kheej. Tab sis txhua tus neeg xav tau tshwj xeeb thiab txawv ntawm lwm tus.
Thiab qhov no siv tsuas yog rau cov lus nug ncaj qha txog niam txiv kev hlub, tab sis kuj yog lub sijhawm pancakes ntawm ib tus menyuam, thiab ntawm ib sab ntawm tus niam uas nws yuav zaum saum rooj zaum.
Tus me nyuam lub siab txaus siab ntawm nws txoj kev xav tau, tsis yog kev sib piv nrog cov nus muag.
Zoo li ib tug A. Faber thiab E. Mazlish pom zoo cov hauv qab no cov nqe lus es tsis txhob sib npaug. Piv txwv li:
ib tug. "Tsis txhob faib txhua yam sib npaug (" koj muaj ntau grapes, zoo li koj tus muam ") ...
Cia txhua tus hauv kev xav tau: "Koj puas muab tsib grapes lossis tag nrho pawg?"
2. Hloov chaw ua kom pom kev sib hlub ("Kuv hlub koj ib yam li koj tus muam") ...
Qhia tus menyuam tias koj hlub nws ntawm txoj kev tshwj xeeb: "Koj yog tib lub ntiaj teb tag nrho, tsis muaj leej twg yuav muaj peev xwm coj koj qhov chaw."
3. Hloov chaw ntawm kev them rau cov menyuam yaus muaj sijhawm sib npaug ("Kuv yuav siv sijhawm kaum feeb nrog koj tus viv ncaus, thiab tom qab ntawd kaum feeb nrog koj") ...
Siv sijhawm rau kev xav tau tiag tiag: "Kuv paub tias kuv tau ua lub sijhawm ntev nrog koj tus muam cov ntaub ntawv. Tsab ntawv sau no tseem ceeb heev rau nws. Sai li peb ua tiav, Kuv xav paub dab tsi yog qhov tseem ceeb rau koj. "
Thiab txawm tias leej niam lossis tus txiv muaj ib tug tsiaj, cov tshuaj zoo tshaj yuav dim ntawm qhov kev ua txhaum thiab ua rau txhua tus kom txhua tus xav tias yuav luag thiab tseem ceeb.
Thiab hnub ntawd, thaum noj su, Kuv khoov rau kuv tus tub thiab hais kom luag ntxhi nrog luag:
- Kuv tsuas muaj ib lub Robert, tsuas yog ib tus tub zoo xws li tus tub zoo li uas kuv zoo siab heev rau kev noj hmo niaj hnub no. Kuv hlub koj heev, ntau heev, thiab kuv nyiam heev thaum peb siv sijhawm ua ke.
Nws luag nyav, me ntsis ntawm Hamburger thiab hais rau kuv txog nws tus phooj ywg tshiab tom tsev kawm ntawv, nws lub npe hu ua tus neeg nyiam ncaws pob ...
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