Psychologists hu cov kev sib txuam no passive-txhoj puab heev. Tes nws tsis tsa, lub suab yuav tsis tsa, tab sis yuav coj kom koj tus kheej yuav khiav thiab qw. Thiab cov photage yuav shrug thiab piav qhia yog vim li cas koj thiaj yuav liam rau qhov no. Nws ua li cas?
Ua tsis muaj dab tsi
"Nitsi" yog SABOTA motto. Nws yeej tsis tau lees tias nws npau taws, txawm hais tias kev sib tw ntawm nws sab plhu muaj twb yog txiv ntoo. Yog li, qhov tseem ceeb qhia koj tias tus txiv neej nyob hauv cov neeg mob vwm (kev coj ua, thiab lub siab hais tias "nws txhais tau tias" nws txhais tau tias "txhua yam yog ib txwm, peb ua ntxiv raws li phiaj xwm." Ob chav lus thawb tuag thaum kawg. Kuv ua tej yam tsis yog? Dab tsi? Tej zaum tsis ua ib yam dab tsi txhua?Zoo li koj paub
Sabadger tsis paub yuav tham li cas cov phiaj xwm. Nws tau nrawm tawm ntawm nws tus kheej thiab tawm, pov cov tsis txaus siab "ua, raws li koj paub!" Ntawm chav kawm, nws tsis tau tso cai ntws ntawm nws kev txiav txim siab. Cov kab lus tau txhais "kaw lawm thiab xyov kwv yees qhov kuv xav tau. Thiab ua. " Tab sis vim koj tsis yog lub telepath, ces koj, tau kawg, tsis yog kwv yees, thiab nws yuav yog heev, tsis txaus siab heev. Hauv qhov no, muaj lub hom phiaj ua kom zoo: los qhia seb koj yuav twv koj txoj kev xav li cas.Kuv Los
Qhov ua kom zoo nkauj tsis hais tias "tsis tau". Nws tsis xav tau nws, vim nws cov lus thiab nws cov khoom tau muaj ntau yam sib txawv. Piv txwv li, koj hais tias: "Cia peb ncua lub tub yees ua ke," yog yeah "thiab buyed buyed lub ntsej muag super-pob ntseg mus rau cov nyiaj. "Coj mus, Thov, tus menyuam kawm tiav" - "Tamsim no, kuv yog," hais tias lub luag hauj lwm thiab mus rau brew tshuaj yej. Thaum kawg, koj yuav kawm txog cov phiaj xwm Torn thaum lub sijhawm kawg, thiab koj tsis muaj sijhawm thiab sijhawm rau kev tshem tawm qhov teeb meem no.Thiab dab tsi, txoj cai tam sim no nws yog qhov tsim nyog?
Tab sis yog tias koj tseem muab ib lo lus nug nrog ntug, thaum lub sabotechne yog ib zaug ntxiv ua tau ib qho tseem ceeb ntawm qhov tseem ceeb, nws yuav ua txuj tias nws tsis nkag siab koj. Tawm mus txawv teb chaws hauv ob lub lis piam, yog li ntawd, phau ntawv hla tebchaws tau hloov lawm? Ntawm no tsuas yog thaum koj hais? Oh, zoo, koj yuav feem ntau nco ntsoov rau 2 hnub. Zoo, tam sim no kuv tsis txawm paub. Nws yog qhov tsim nyog los hais ib yam dab tsi zoo li nrov.Koj tsis thov
Koj tsis tuaj yeem tawm hauv lub tsev, tawm ntawm cov menyuam muaj mob, thiab thov hnubvota los yuav khoom noj rau noj hmo. Nws coj cov neeg nqa khoom mus rau Kauslim carrots thiab ib tug tuaj yeem yog npias. Thiab dab tsi, qhov no yog nws noj hmo hnub no, txij li koj tsis npaj dab tsi. Qhov ntawd yog nyob mus ib txhis koj tsis thov. Nws yog ib qho tsim nyog los muab cov lus qhia ntau dua. Thiab feem ntau, nws tsis yog kev ua kom zoo nkauj curves thiab malfunctions, nws yog qee yam ntawm perfectionism. Cov kev siv roj zoo heev! Rau zaum ob koj yuav tsis muaj kev pheej hmoo nws los nug nws txog ib yam dab tsi thiab ua txhua yam nws tus kheej. Koj puas paub nws yuav hais dab tsi thaum koj poob? "Yog li kuv nug kuv, Kuv tau ua nws!"Kuv xav tias koj paub
Qhov kev ua phem tsis txaus siab rau koj cov phiaj xwm thiab yooj yim tsoo lawv. Xws li koj tau pom zoo tias hnub Saturday, peb tau so ua ke hauv cov tsev apartment, thiab hnub Sunday peb taug kev nrog tus menyuam nyob hauv lub tiaj ua si. Ib tug neeg txhoj puab heev comrade tej zaum yuav xav mus saib phooj ywg es tsis muaj ib hnub mus xyuas phooj ywg lossis caw lawv mus saib tsev. Nov yog qhov qub! Tab sis nws yuav tsis qhia txog nws ua ntej, tab sis yuav muab koj ua ntej qhov tseeb, hais, thaum sawv ntxov hnub Saturday. "Tsis txhob ceeb toom? Thiab zoo li kuv tau sib tham. Zoo, tseeb, nco ntsoov, Kuv tau hais tom qab lub xyoo tshiab uas kuv xav pom nrog Vitaly? "Tsis phem. Rau nruab nrab um
Ntawm lub sijhawm thaum kev them nyiaj yug yog qhov tseem ceeb rau koj, lub Tshiv rau koj yuav ua li cas kom tawg xws li uas koj xav pw thiab tsis ua dab tsi ntxiv. Nws muaj kev hloov maj mam dhau los. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws tsev neeg kev ua koob tsheej los yog kev sib tham ua lag luam uas koj tab tom npaj, tsim nyog dua, lub tswv yim ntau yuav yog nws cov lus pom. Npaj xya qhov kev hloov pauv ntawm cov tais diav? Khob cij tej koj zoo tshaj plaws tau ua tiav, kev hlub. Puas yog tag nrho cov lus qhia rau daim ntawv tshaj tawm? Tsis txhob txhawj ntau ntau koj yuav nyob hauv qhov teeb meem.Yog lawm, kuv tso dag!
Lub sabotechnology qhia pom kev ua phem rau hauv daim foos uas tau txais - uas yog, hauv daim ntawv ntawm kev tso dag. Nov yog ib qho txiaj ntsig ob chav. Yog tias koj ua txhaum koj qhov kev ua txhaum, koj yuav ua pov thawj tias koj yog, ua ntej, tsis txaus ntseeg ntawm kev lom zem, thiab kev txhoj puab ntau, ua rau nws ua txhaum. Yog li nws tau tag nrho txoj cai ua rau koj teb. Inflate thiab raug kev txom nyem. Tsis to taub. Tso tseg. Hauv cov kab ke no, txoj cai los thuam tsuas yog los ntawm nws.Dab tsi ua koj hysteriate?
Dab tsi yog cov sabotuer yuav tsis kam tsis kam lees, yog li nws muaj peev xwm tswj hwm kev thaj yeeb nyab xeeb thaum txhua tus neeg nyob ib puag ncig twb tau tso pa hluav taws ntawm pob ntseg, sib txuas lus nrog nws. Nws tseem nyiam nws. Cov tsav tsheb tsis txaus, thiab tom qab ntawd nug tias: "Zoo, koj yog dab tsi? Zoo, koj txhua. Thiab yuav tham nrog koj txhua tus, ib leeg xav! "Yog li ntawd!
Passive-txhoj puab heev tuaj yeem ua rau sabotage txawm tias ib feem nrog lawv! Sim muab pov tseg, thiab koj paub tias, ua ntej txhua yam, koj tau muab nws ua rau nws txiav txim siab tsis thoob. Thib ob, tsis txhob xav tias nws tsis nkag siab tias koj muaj teeb meem npaum li cas. Koj yuav tsum tau liam rau lawv, tab sis nws npaj siab yuav zam txim rau koj. Thib peb, cia ua haujlwm ntawm peb txoj kev sib raug zoo! Yog li ntawd nws yog tus. Nws twb nyob ntawm lub rooj zaum. Txhua yam, thiab nws yuav tsis mus qhov twg. Nws, koj, ruam, hlub, thiab leej twg, nrog xws li kev ntxhov siab, tseem yuav pom zoo nyob.