Lub neej nrog tus neeg npau taws dhau los yog, kom muab tso rau nws me, tsis yog kev lom zem ntawm cov tog tshuaj yej. Txawm hais tias thaum xub thawj nws zoo li qhov no: passive tus neeg tsim txom, yog tias tsis txhob saib xyuas, tsuas yog tus luav xwb - ntsiag to thiab ntxhi. Tab sis nws cov neeg koom tes yog heev dhau los ua dung raws li spies nyob nram qab ntawm tus yeeb ncuab.
Cov neeg siab tawv tsis paub yuav ua li cas tawm tsam thiab kev ntshai ntawm kev sib cav sib ceg, tsis txhob tham txog lawv txoj kev xav thiab tsis xav mloog cov neeg txawv. Hloov chaw ncaj qha ntawm kev tsis txaus siab thiab kev sib tham, lawv siv kev ntxias, muab tso rau ntawm kev sib hlub thiab ua si ntsiag to thiab ua si ntsiag to.
Nws tsis nco qab
Nyob rau tus neeg phem passive, tsis nco qab yog pom ntau heev - ntau dua li koj 98-xyoo-laus loj-pog. Nws yeej tsis hais tias "tsis muaj," tab sis tsis nco qab los mus rau lub rooj sib tham zoo, hu rau cov kav dej thiab them cov ntawv txais nyiaj. Tsis nco qab siv rau koj cov lus thov thiab koj cov lus cog tseg, thaum nws los txog nws txoj haujlwm, nws ua haujlwm zoo nrog nws.Nws muab tso rau tom qab
Nws txib tau "Kuv yuav ua nws tag kis" thiab koj tuaj yeem saib taus nws - ib zaug hais tias tag kis, nws txhais tau tias tag kis. Txhua hnub nws yuav rov ua nws.
Nws thuam
Nws raug tshem tawm
Nrog tus neeg phem passive, nws yog qhov nyuaj heev hais lus zoo nkauj - sai li sai tau ntawm cov lus sib tham txhawj txog qee qhov teeb meem tsis sib haum xeeb, nws hais tias - "Oh, txhua yam. Kuv yuav hu nkauj "- thiab mus noj mov. Txhua qhov kev sim siab rau kev sib tham txog cov pob zeb ua ntsiag to, simulation ntawm kev lag luam thiab tsis npau suav lossis ua txhaum "zoo, koj ib txwm yog txoj cai." Vim tias qhov tseeb, tus neeg phem passive tsis xav kom sib tham thiab saib rau kev pom zoo.Nws yeej tsis tau npau taws
Koj tsis tu ncua tawm ntawm kuv tus kheej, coj mus rau tus mob hniav uas muaj kev thuam tas li, tsis nco qab, nchuav thiab whining. Tab sis tus neeg phem passive yeej tsis tau nce lub suab thiab tsis mus rau hauv kev sib cav sib ceg.
Nws presses rau kev tu siab thiab mloog zoo li txhaum
Nws tsis tham txog nws txoj kev xav
Thiab txoj cai, nws yuav tsuas yog ua me ntsis paj huam nyob nrog lub hli puv, nws tseem tuaj yeem dim. Tab sis yog tias nws tsis zoo siab rau qee yam, nws yog qhov ua tau kom nkag siab txog qhov kev sib tw ntawm kev sib raug zoo uas tsuas yog ib qho kev txuag tau los ntawm kev txuag tau tuaj yeem hnov lawv. Tus tsim tawm tsam ua rau cov nqaij qaib liam ntsej muag, ntsia rau hauv kaum tsev thiab hais tias txhua yam zoo.