Uas los ntawm tsev kawm ntawv thiab tsho. Los yog, phem dua, saib rau hauv phab ntsa. Nobling, coj caj pas, tus menyuam tau lees paub - kev ua tub yeej pib. Koj tus menyuam muaj kev sib cav. Oh, nws yuav zoo dua rau cov cab ...
Puas yog nws yuav maj maj los tiv thaiv Chad? Thiab dheev tus me nyuam nws tus kheej hijacked? Koj puas nres ib tus neeg thaum kawg kev sib raug zoo hauv pab pawg thiab nrog cov xibfwb? Thiab feem ntau, yuav tsum muaj ib tug txiv neej kawm paub ua kom koj cov xwm txheej ua rau koj tus kheej rhuav tshem! Cia nws yog nws yog? Puas yog kev ntxeev siab? Txhawb? Thiab dab tsi xyov? Los pab? Tab sis li cas?
1. Tshawb nrhiav seb nws ncab ntev npaum li cas
Tsis yog "thaum koj nyuam qhuav tuaj txog," Koj tau sib cav ntev npaum li cas tau ntev npaum li cas, thiab vim yog dab tsi. " Hauv kev sib cav nrog tus kws qhia ntawv - "Txij lub sijhawm uas koj tau piam sij." Tus me nyuam ib txwm yuav pleev xim txhua yam zoo li no: "Nws tawm tsam", "nws lo", " Peb qhia meej vim li cas nws pib. Thiab tsis yog nyob hauv qhov style "Koj tau coj tus poj niam dawb huv uas nws tau pib ua txhaum rau koj?" Cov nyom tshiab tuaj yeem sib tham yooj yim thiab nres yog tias tus menyuam tsis thov kev pab. Yog hais tias tus ignition yog ntau tshaj peb hnub, thiab nws tsis ua mob rau nws tus kheej - nws yog qhov tsim nyog yuav cuam tshuam.
2. Mloog tus pojniam xwb
Cov kws qhia ntawv yeej ib txwm paub tias muaj kev loj tshwm sim hauv chav kawm. Kev tshawb fawb ntawm kev thab plaub (tsev kawm ntawv raug mob) pom - txawm tias yog tus kws qhia ntawv tsis yog tus pib ua tus neeg laus. Thiab yog li ntawd qhov kev xaiv "Kuv tsis pom dab tsi, Kuv tsis paub dab tsi" - lub suab nrov tshaj plaws. Thiab txoj kev hais lus thiab yuav zoo siab koom, thiab nws tus kheej yuav pab tau.
3. Mloog leej twg sib cav sib ceg
Cov kev tsis sib haum xeeb yog kev sib tsoo ntawm kev pom ntawm ib qho kev tshwm sim. Yog tias txhua tus pom zoo tias nws tau tshwm sim, yuav tsis muaj kev sib cav, nws yuav yog "peb muaj teeb meem ntawm no." Thaum muaj kev sib cav thiab nws ncab, tom qab ntawd tus menyuam uas sib cav nrog tus uas muaj lwm tus saib. Yog li qhia tias koj tuaj kom paub paub thiab nkag siab, thiab tsis yog nyob rau hauv cov style ntawm "rau kuv tus tub lub pob ntseg." Tej zaum koj tus menyuam pom ntau yam xwm txheej tshiab. Calm sib tham "nyob rau hauv qhib" tua tau ib feem peb ntawm kev tsis sib haum xeeb. Tso? - Zoo. Tsis them - mus rau lwm yam khoom tom ntej.
4. Txiav txim siab qhov chaw ntawm lub luag haujlwm thiab sim kho nws cov kev ua txhaum nrog tus menyuam
Yog tias koj tsis yog kwv tij (piv txog tus kwv tij nyob rau hauv daim iav thiab qee cov duab. Koj tus menyuam tub tsis txhob hais lus ntxiv), yog li koj tus menyuam tsis yog nws, ces koj tus menyuam kuj yog koj txiv neej. Thiab nws yog nyob rau hauv qhov kev tsis sib haum xeeb no, nres, nws tseem yuav liam. Los ntawm 1%, los ntawm 50% lossis 98% - cov kev xaiv yog tau. Thiab ntawm no nws yog ib qho yuav tsum tau kom muaj "tsev neeg cov lus dab" hom! Thiab kuv, kuv nyob hauv koj lub xyoo! Txuas lub qhov rai, muaj sia nyob txawv tebchaws los ntawm tus neeg zej zog, hlawv cov ntawv xov xwm, muab tso rau ntawm lub lauj kaub, muab daim duab xab npum, tshuaj pleev noj nas. Koj tuaj yeem nrog cov ntsiab lus tsis txaus ntseeg.
Ntawm no tus menyuam feem ntau nres quaj thiab zoo siab kawm kev nug - koj niam tais rau nws li cas? Tus yawg hais li cas? Thiab cov phooj ywg yog dab tsi? Thiab tom qab ntawd? Koj ua dab tsi? Ntawm no nws yog rau koj thiab npaj kom hnov cov lus lees paub los ntawm kev paub Sab laj Cov. Thiab ua ntej ntawd - lwm lo lus nug, peb yuav raug nqi ib qho ntawm koj cov lus ntuas. Tom qab tag nrho, koj, mommy, ib txwm yog ib tug ntxhais zoo. Koj paub qhov twg! ... Tam sim no koj, (zoo siab nrog!) Huam yuaj. Ua ke peb yuav ua haujlwm tawm, thov txim ua ke. Txhua tus tshwm sim, xaiv.
5. Yog, ob sab muab ib leeg cog lus.
Nws yog tsis yooj yim sua cog kom tsis txhob sib ntaus txhua. Cia lawv cog lus tsis txhob ntaus lub ntsej muag thiab tsis ncaws. Nws yog tsis yooj yim sua cog tseg tsis txhob coj lwm tus neeg. Cia lawv cog lus tias yuav tsis xav tau. Nws yog tsis yooj yim sua kom cog lus tsis tau cog lus. Koj tuaj yeem cog lus tsis tau hu. Qhov ntau tshwj xeeb, zoo dua.
6. Kev ntes yog ob tog ua tiav cov lus cog tseg
Raws li lo lus - khaws! Ntawm no nws tau pom tam sim ntawd leej twg radish, thiab leej twg ua tau zoo. Lub Clearer, cov lus cog tseg no, lub meej, nrog leej twg nug yog tias lawv tsis tuav. Thiab lawv, tsis zoo li "lawv ob leeg zoo, lub ntiaj teb tsis coj lawv," tsis txhob txhais lawv lwm tus.
7. Tag nrho cov no thiab cov neeg laus tsis ua rau pom, ua tau.