Yuav ua li cas txaus ntshai lub suab, hnub no txog ib hlis ntawm cov menyuam yaus hnub nyoog qis dua 18 xyoo nyob nrog ib tug niam txiv. Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, qhov kev tsis ncaj ncees muaj ntau heev uas cov menyuam yaus loj hlob hauv cov tsev neeg tsis muaj yam tsis muaj peev xwm ua tau zoo li cov menyuam yaus nyob hauv tsev neeg muaj ob niam txiv muaj. Nyob rau hauv xws li ib tsev neeg, tsuas yog ib tus neeg laus cov neeg tawm tsam ua niam txiv, txoj haujlwm ua tau ntau dua. Txawm li cas los xij, muaj ob peb lub tswv yim uas yuav pab coj tus menyuam nyob ib leeg thiab tsis txhob ploj mus rau lub siab.
1. Tsis txhob txiav txim siab saib xyuas koj tus kheej
Nws yog qhov tsim nyog los nkag siab tam sim rau koj tus kheej tias koj yuav tsum tau saib xyuas koj tus kheej kom txaus siab. Tsuas yog thaum ib tus neeg zoo li so thiab noj qab haus huv, nws tuaj yeem saib xyuas nws cov menyuam.Coob leej niam txiv zoo li tau teeb tsa cov kev xav tau ntawm lawv cov menyuam ua ntej, thiab lawv tus kheej lub xeem, tab sis qhov no yuav ua rau muaj qhov tseeb tas li. Nco ntsoov faib sijhawm kom tsis tu ncua thiab pab tau, so thiab koom nrog tsawg kawg tsev.
2. Ua ke sib txuas nrog lwm cov niam txiv ib leeg
Muaj tseeb txhua tus uas tau ntsib ib qho zoo sib xws uas nws yog tib tug neeg uas paub tias nws yog ib tug neeg kho siab. Txawm li cas los xij, cov naj npawb hais tias muaj ntau lwm tus paub tias nws yog dab tsi.
Koj tuaj yeem nrhiav niam txiv ib leeg online, hauv tsev kawm ntawm koj tus menyuam, ntawm cov xwm txheej ntxiv los yog txawm los ntawm daim ntawv thov tshwj xeeb. Kuj tseem muaj ntau cov neeg zej zog online uas tuaj yeem muab cov lus txhawb thiab cov lus qhia hauv Facebook lossis cov chaw xws li ib hlis.
3. Tsim cov zej zog
Ntxiv rau kev nrhiav kev txhawb nqa los ntawm lwm tus niam txiv ib leeg, koj kuj tseem tuaj yeem tsim ib lub zej zog muaj cov tsev neeg zoo sib xws. Raws li lawv hais, ua ke thiab tu siab yog qhov yooj yim thev naus laus zis. Thiab cov ntsiab lus dav dav ua ke tib neeg vim nws tsis yooj yim sua.4. COJ PAB
Tsis tas yuav sim ua tus superhero thiab ua txhua yam koj tus kheej. Muaj tseeb, hmo ntuj yuav muaj neeg (cov txheeb ze, phooj ywg, thiab lwm yam), uas tus neeg nyob ib leeg yuav tsum saib xyuas kev nyob ib leeg thiab nws cov menyuam, thiab xav tau pab nws. Nws yog tus nqi tshaj tawm rau lawv qhia tias qhov kev pab cuam yam twg yuav tsum tau hais tawm, seb nws puas ua haujlwm nrog cov khoom lag luam lossis kom tau txais menyuam mus kawm ntawv.
Tsis muaj ib yam dab tsi txaj muag rau kev thov kev pab thiab kev pab los ntawm cov neeg hlub. Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, kev thov yuav tsis pom tias tsis muaj zog lossis tsis muaj peev xwm, tab sis nws nws yuav suav hais tias yog niam txiv zoo.
5. Muaj tswv yim txog kev zov menyuam
Kev kawm ntawm tus menyuam nyob hauv ib tus niam txiv yog qhov kev ua haujlwm nyuaj vim yog qhov tseeb ntawm cov kev xaiv, yog tias koj thov tsawg kawg yog qee qhov kev muaj tswv yim.
Yog nyob hauv tsev muaj chav kawm "ntxiv, koj tuaj yeem muab nws tus tub ntxhais kawm sib pauv pauv kev saib xyuas tsis tu ncua rau tus menyuam. Lossis koj tuaj yeem sim sib tham nrog lwm tus niam txiv ib leeg mus saib cov menyuam yaus hloov. Muaj dua lwm qhov hnyav tshaj no rau hauv qhov no - cov menyuam yaus yuav muaj peev xwm sib koom ua ke, thiab kev saib xyuas rau lawv yuav yooj yim dua.
6. Npaj ua ntej xwm txheej ua ntej
Yog tias koj tau nyiaj ib leeg, yuav tsum muaj txoj kev npaj thaub qab lossis ob kis "ib yam dab tsi mus tsis raug." Koj yuav tsum tau sau cov npe ntawm cov neeg paub uas tuaj yeem raug hu thaum twg los tau. Nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub, koj yuav tau txais kev pab, thiab nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum paub ua ntej uas koj tuaj yeem vam khom.Nws tseem tsim nyog kawm paub ua ntej qhov chaw koj tuaj yeem xaj kev kub ntxhov tshiab lossis qib kindergarten. Kev paub tus neeg uas tuaj yeem saib xyuas ib tus menyuam thaum muaj xwm txheej ceev, tuaj yeem txo cov kev txhawj xeeb hauv kev ntxhov siab.
7. Hom hnub ntawm lub hnub
Lub sijhawm tseem ceeb heev rau cov menyuam yaus, vim tias kev paub txog dab tsi tuaj yeem ua rau lawv pom kev tswj hwm. Nws yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj li thaum tsuas muaj ib tus niam txiv nyob hauv tsev.
Nws yog tsim nyog txhim kho ib hom thiab ib daim duab qhia rau ib tus menyuam kom ntau li ntau tau - ua ntej tsev kawm ntawv, lub sijhawm txais tos hauv tsev, lub sijhawm txais tos hauv tsev thiab txawm tias ib txwm muaj nyob rau hnub so.
8. Ua tau zoo ib yam
Yog tias ib tug me nyuam muaj ntau tus neeg saib xyuas, lwm tus niam txiv, koj tau hais lus zoo rau lawv txoj kev qhuab qhia kom tus menyuam raug coj tuaj saum txaj.Thaum ib tug me nyuam to taub tias tej yam kev cai "ua hauj lwm" nrog cov neeg sib txawv, nws tsuas yuav siv lawv nyob rau hauv nws cov kev txaus siab, uas yuav ua rau ntxiv teeb meem nrog kev txwv, tus cwj pwm thiab kev qhuab qhia nyob rau hauv lub neej yav tom ntej.
9. Ua qhov zoo
Cov menyuam yaus yuav muaj peev xwm nrhiav tau txawm cov kev hloov pauv me tshaj plaws hauv kev coj cwj pwm thiab kev xav ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv. Yog li ntawd, nws yog ib qho yuav tsum tau tsom rau lub sijhawm zoo ntawm lub neej, xws li cov phooj ywg thiab tsev neeg. Qhov no yuav tsim ntau qhov chaw nyob hauv tsev.
Kuj nco ntsoov ua kom muaj kev lom zem thiab tsis txhob ntshai saib ruam.
10. Tso rau yav dhau los thiab tsis hnov qhov kev ua txhaum
Nyob rau hauv ib tsev neeg nrog ib tus niam txiv, txawm tias nws nyuaj npaum li cas sim nws, tsuas yog ua tsis tau ua raws li ob leeg ob leeg. Nws yog ib qho yuav tsum yog tsis yog "thab" thab plaub ntawm qhov tseeb uas koj tsis tuaj yeem ua ib leeg, thiab hloov, xav li cas rau koj cov menyuam.Nws tseem tsim nyog yuav tsum tsis nco qab txog kev xav tias lub neej yuav yooj yim dua lossis zoo dua nrog ob niam txiv. Nws yog qhov tsis tseeb. Muaj ntau yam zoo thiab cov minuses rau tsev neeg nyob rau ob qho xwm txheej, yog li kev khuv xim yog qhov kev xav tau tsawg tshaj plaws.
11. Cov lus teb ncaj ncees
Cov menyuam yaus yuav muaj lus nug txog vim li cas lawv cov chaw ntxhua khaub ncaws txawv ntawm ntau tus phooj ywg. Thaum lawv nug tias vim li cas nws thiaj li, koj tsis tas yuav qhia qhov xwm txheej lossis dag / tsis muaj tseeb.
Ua raws li lub hnub nyoog, nws yog qhov tsim nyog los piav rau lawv qhov tseeb txog qhov muaj dab tsi tshwm sim thiab muaj xwm txheej tam sim no. Lawm, nws tsis tsim nyog qhia cov ntsiab lus ntau dua li qhov tsim nyog, thiab nws tsis tsim nyog los hais lus tsis zoo txog lwm tus niam txiv. Tab sis tib lub sijhawm, nws yog tus nqi sim ua kom muaj tseeb thiab ua siab ncaj.
12. Hais txog cov menyuam yog menyuam yaus
Thaum tsis muaj ib tug khub, ntau yam pom lawv cov menyuam ua ib tus neeg sib txuas lus los sib txuas lus lossis kev khuv leej. Nyob rau hauv tsis muaj teeb meem tsis tuaj yeem ua qhov no - cov menyuam tsuas yog tsis yog rau lub luag haujlwm no.Hauv kev sib raug zoo ntawm cov neeg laus muaj ntau cov ntsiab lus uas tsis nkag siab lossis nkag siab, thiab nws tsuas yog ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab thiab tsis meej pem thiab indignation.
Tsis tas li, koj tsis tas yuav tshem tawm kev npau taws rau koj cov menyuam thiab kom meej meej koj cov kev xav hauv siab.
13. Nrhiav cov qauv muaj nuj nqis
Nws yog hais txog kom nrhiav tau ib qho piv txwv zoo los qog cov neeg sib deev rov qab. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev uas tus me nyuam tsis muaj cov koomhaum tsis zoo nrog ib tus tsis muaj tus uas ploj lawm.
Ua li no, koj tuaj yeem nrhiav cov phooj ywg lossis cov neeg hauv tsev neeg uas xav siv sijhawm nrog menyuam yaus. Nws yog ib qho tsim nyog los txhawb cov menyuam kom muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog cov neeg uas koj ntseeg siab thiab uas lawv muaj peev xwm muab ua piv txwv.
14. Muaj kev hlub thiab qhuas
Cov menyuam xav tau kev hlub thiab qhuas txhua hnub. Nws yog tus nqi sib txuas lus nrog cov menyuam yaus ntau li ntau tau, ua si nrog lawv, mus taug kev thiab txhawb kev qhib kev sib tham.Nco ntsoov hais txog qhov tus me nyuam ua tau zoo, tsis muaj teeb meem me me li cas. Koj yuav tsum qhuas lawv cov dag zog, tsis ua tiav. Nws yuav txhawb cov menyuam yaus tsis tas yuav zwm rau kev ua haujlwm nyuaj tshaj plaws, yog tias koj tsis pom kev vam meej tseem.
Hloov chaw siv nyiaj rau kev siv nyiaj rau khoom plig, nws yog qhov zoo dua los siv sijhawm thiab lub zog kom tsim cov kev nco mus ntev.
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Ua niam txiv yog ib txoj haujlwm nyuaj. Yog tsis muaj kev pab ntawm tus khub uas koj tuaj yeem suav tau, cov niam txiv ib leeg yuav muaj kev txhawj xeeb ntau ntxiv.
Txawm li cas los xij, kev tshawb fawb qhia tau tias thaum tus menyuam loj tuaj hauv ib tsev neeg nrog ib tsev neeg nrog ib tsev neeg, nws tsis muaj qhov tsis zoo rau nws qhov kev ua tau zoo hauv tsev kawm. Thaum tsev neeg yog qhov chaw nyob ruaj khov thiab nyab xeeb, cov menyuam yaus tuaj yeem ua tiav hauv lawv txoj kev kawm thiab lub neej.