A cikin wannan labarin, duk maki a kan "i" za a sanya shi game da matsalolin da ke tattare da rayuwar iyali. Wannan, musamman, zai tafi game da gida azzalumi, wanda waɗanda Wadanda suka rasu, da rashin alheri, suna kara kara samun mata sosai.
To menene zalunci? Bari mu fara da gaskiyar cewa galibi yana da zalunci na zahiri, kamar yadda muka ji da yin imani, a zahiri, babu ƙasa da tashin hankali na zahiri shirin. Kowace yarinya, manya, mafarkai gamuwa da ƙaunar rayuwarsa, yi aure, ƙirƙirar dangi mai farin ciki, sami ma'aurata mai farin ciki, sami ma'aurata da yara kuma rayuwa, gabaɗaya, tsayi da farin ciki. Duk wannan mai yiwuwa ne kuma ya kai idan babu wasu abubuwan tuntuɓe. Gaskiyar ita ce wannan wani lokacin kawai makantar da idanu, da rashin alheri, da yawa smart rasa kuma ikon yin daidai da halin da ake ciki. Bayan ya sadu da mutumin kirki, kasancewa a cikin "Cewa-sayan", yarinyar, a zahiri, ba ta wani sutura mai ruwan hoda ba, har ma da tunani. Ta, tayi kamar ba a sani ba, wannan, bayan da aka kunna wani farin aure tare da abin da ƙaunarsa, har yanzu ba ta zama mace mai farin ciki ba. Jihar ƙididdiga ta cewa yawancin mutanen da-azzaluma suna nuna kansu a cikin duk "ɗaukaka" kawai ta zama wanda aka zalunta, sannan ku shiga, daidai. Da farko, ga tambayar "Shin kuna farin ciki?" Mace har yanzu, watakila, ya amsa "Ee!" Amma, da karin lokaci ya wuce, mai zurfin yana dauke da shi, da gaba ɗaya iri ɗaya "ya rage, mai saukin zama kuma wanda ta daure su. Hannun dindindin ya fara da kuma buƙatun "sunkura", haramtattun haramtattun abubuwa, rashin ƙarfi, tsarewa, shakku, shakku kuma ko da shakku. Idan ba da daɗewa ba, wata mace wacce ta faɗi a cikin hanyar wannan mutumin sun danganta shi da rukunin "dusa", yanzu ya bayyana cewa shari'ar ba komai bane. Bai amsa a lokacin kiran daga mijinta ba ne - abin kunya ne. Ba ni da lokacin da zan zo ga surukarta, daidai yake da kwanakin mace mai nasara - abin ban tsoro. Ya nemi kuɗi don kashe kan aljihu - ƙi da ƙiba da zargin da rashin iya zubar da kuɗi yadda yakamata. Yaro ya kamu da rashin lafiya shine abin kunya da barazanar da za a hana shi haƙƙin iyaye, tunda ita "ba ta iya aiwatar da yaro da kuma kula da yaro." Duk abin da mace ta yi, ita ce da za ta zargi, ita mai sauki ce, ba daga can ba "kuma yana da ba daidai ba kamar yadda miji yake so. Consuladdamar da irin wannan mace ce kawai a cikin yara waɗanda suka riga sun yi nasarar bayyana. Janye hankalin su, yana ƙoƙarin mantawa da wanda yake rayuwa da abin da ake tilastawa ya jimre. Music--Tyrana ba ta da kuskure. Su, a matsayin mai mulkin, basu san yadda ake sauraron wasu ba, kuma ba sa so. Neman a cikin matar sa Slabinka, Tiran ba zai taba zama miji mai kyau ba. Ba zai taɓa cutar da rashin lafiyar matar sa ba. Ya damu da bukatun nasa ne kawai da bukatunsa.Jin cewa matar ba ta daɗe ba ga mai kishi, yanzu an fahimci ta da namiji ya fahimci, don sanya shi, don ƙulla, da aka gani, da komai daga ciki. Gilashin ta ruwan hoda, a ƙarshe, shafa, wanda aka gaza. Yanzu duk abin da yake bayyane a waɗancan launuka, wanda ya samo asali ne. Aikin yau da kullun na kwanaki sun rayu cikin zalunci, wasu lokuta, wani lokacin, har da sha'awar rayuwa. Tsoron fara wani sabon rai ba ya ba sauran kuma ga alama cewa saba duniya ne mafi alhẽri, domin shi ne ko da yaushe wuya a shigar da sabon hanya, ko da yake wajibi ne a cikin hali na mata da suke da ya jera tare da Tyran. Wawanci ne a yarda cewa mutane suna canzawa. Wauta ne a kuma yi imani cewa irin waɗannan mutane na iya canza yara, saboda, da gaske, yara a cikin irin wannan dangi - wanda aka azabtar, wanda kawai mahaifiyarsu, wanda kawai mahaifiyarsu, wanda kawai mahaifiyarsu, wacce kawai mahaifiyarsu, wacce kawai mahaifiyarsu, wacce kawai mahaifiyarsu, wacce kawai mahaifiyarsu, wacce kawai mahaifiyarsu, wacce kawai mahaifiyarsu, wacce kawai mahaifiyarsu, wacce kawai mahaifiyarsu, wacce kawai mahaifiyarsu, wacce kawai mahaifiyarsu, wacce take so kawai ta yi farin ciki. Ina so in ga duk matan da suke fama da mugunta da mugunta, kuyi yanke hukunci har abada: rayuwa da wa za ta zama Mafi muni, kuma yara za su fara ƙaura da wuri ko kuma daga baya don gari, a cikin abin da suke ciki da rashin hankalinsu kusan halin da ake ciki, domin akwai sha'awarsu da himma. Kada ku ji tsoron canji a rayuwar ku! An ba shi sau ɗaya kawai sau ɗaya. Kuma ba zai yi haƙuri ba kuma ku wahala. Kuma don rayuwa! Rayuwa cikin farin ciki kuma a hankali, cikin cikakkiyar aminci da jituwa tare da kansu.