Wani mai daukar hoto Gabbiela Erman a cikin shekaru biyar da suka gabata, harbe hotunan wasu mutane, duka ko su kadai, suna da dabarunsu. "Mariyata ce ta lesbian," in ji ta. "Amma ina buƙatar lokaci mai yawa da zan faɗi da ƙarfi." Don Erman, tsarin gabatar da bayyana mahaifiyarsa "mai raɗaɗi ne kuma mai wahala."
Ba ta saba da duk wani mutum da Gay ko Lesbian ba. "Topic ya kasance Taboo ko da a cikin sabon abu da kuma hadin gwiwa," in ji ta. "Youngeran snibings sun wuce iri ɗaya ji, amma mun guji tattaunawa mai ma'ana." Daga qarshe, Erman ya tuntuɓi murfi, 'yar Lesbian da' ya'yan gay, kuma suka sami mutane a can, suna kare darajar iyaye a filin wasa. Hotuna da tambayoyi da aka gabatar a ersman Erman "Waɗannan yaran" suna ƙoƙarin kashe shiru. Yaran iyayen "daidaituwa na tunani" ba wasu "maganganu ba", suna da gaske, kuma suna da al'ada.Fata, Rose a New York a cikin dangi biyu
Na sami damar ganin iyalan abokaina da kawuna, da na san cewa mutane suna da wani abu da ake kira ni, amma ban kasance tare da ni ba, amma ban yi tunani sosai ba a cikin marasa rinjaye. Ina sha'awar dangin ɗanyata, musamman mahaifiyata, amma, yin la'akari da yadda nake girma, ba na jin cewa na sha wahala. Ina ganin iyayena sunyi aiki mai ban mamaki, kuma amma tambayar, inda na fito - wani lokacin ma na zama mai sha'awar zama m.
Allison, ya girma a Connecticut da Vermont tare da Inna da abokin aikinta
Da zaran na gano cewa abokantaka da heterexe da 'yan luwadi mai yiwuwa ne a cikin sabuwar makaranta na, don gano cewa akwai wasu yara na shekaruna ... don gano cewa suna goyon bayan LGBT. Ba ni kaɗai ne abin da ya san Lesbian da gay ba, wannan ba wani sirrin baƙin ciki ne, wanda dole ne a adana shi.
Kerry, an kawo shi a cikin sabon shugaban Kirista shugaban jita da inna, wanda ya fahimci koyarwar ta lokacin da 'yar shekara 11
Na tuna tattaunawar da mahaifiyata lokacin da ta ce, kamar yadda zan so ƙirƙirar dangi tare da wata mace. Lokacin da nake ƙanana, Ina so in yi aure tare da budurwa mafi kyau, don haka na ce kamar wannan: "Yoh, ta yaya muke tare da Saratu?" Kuma ita, ba kamar ku Saratu ba. "
Zack, ya tashi a New York a ƙarƙashin kulawar uwaye biyu
A cikin iyalina, dukansu suna karba. Ina da matsaloli da yawa da suka shafi gaskiyar cewa uwaye sun fi su don neman kanku kuma, kun sani, tare da launin fata.
Hagu: Paloma, girma a cikin Newton, Massachusetts, a cikin dangi daga mahaifinsa da mahaifiyarsa, wanda ya fahimci daidaituwa lokacin da paloma ya kasance 13
Dama: Haruna, daga Berkeley, California, ya girma da mama biyu kuma, bayan kisan aure, da kuma tare da ub
Haruna: uwuna sun gudu a lokacin da nake wani wuri bakwai, domin mahaifina na na halittata ya ƙaunaci wani mutum. Na san iyalina ya bambanta da wasu, amma ba mummunan bambanci ba ne, kawai nau'in iyali na musamman.
Zach, ya girma a Iowa a cikin uwaye biyu
Ina tsammanin iyalina an bayyana shi daidai ba kamar yadda LGBT, amma a matsayin iyali. Idan ka kalli wanda mahaifiyata, ko kuma dukkan iyalina, to, za ka fahimci cewa na kira 'yan wasa biyu na kungiyar kwallon kafa na Lesbian ba su da wasu magunguna na kungiyar kwallon kafa ko kuma wasu ma'aikatan kiwon lafiya. Duk waɗannan ma'anar mahaifiyata daidai take da gaskiya.
Jamie, ya girma a ƙarƙashin Chicago tare da mahaifiyarta da abokan aikinta
Mahaifiyata da abokan aikinta aka haddasa, kuma da yawa daga abokan tarayya da budurwa sun kasance a cikin rayuwata, cewa na ji kamar na tace min mata da yawa.
Mark, ya girma a Pennsylvania tare da inna, Uba, wanda ya fahimci daidaituwa yayin da Markus ya yi nazari a kwaleji
Mahaifina shi ne Gay. A zahiri, har yanzu yana kan aiwatar da gane wannan. Na saba tunanin cewa mahaifina ya ɗan luwadi tun farkon lokaci. A koyaushe na san cewa ni quir, kuma yana taimaka. Tun daga farkon ƙuruciyata na ga cewa mahaifina yana ɓoye mata mata daidai kamar yadda ni, da alama yana ƙoƙarin ƙetare kafafu kuma kada ku nuna a cikin tattaunawar.
Elizabeth ya girma a Boston tare da inna, wanda ya fahimci luwanta lokacin da ta yi nazari a kwaleji
Ya ce: "Lokaci ya yi da zan hadu da fuska da asalina," kuma ya ce: "Lafiya dai, ban sami irin wannan kwarewar don tabbatar da hakan ba." Kuma, ga alama cewa waɗannan kalmomin, waɗanda na fasa, sun ce: "Baba, na tabbata na tabbata cewa kai ne ɗan luwaɗi."
John, ya rayu a New England tare da inna da Biyu da aba, wanda ya fahimci batun lokacin da John ya kasance biyu, kuma abokin tarayya
A karo na farko da suka yi magana da wannan batun, shi ne lokacin da Inna ta sayi wannan littafin, "Wanda ke zaune tare da Dad tare."
Hagu: Musa, ya tashi a New York jihar tare da mama biyu
Dama: Lauren, ya girma a Kansas, Missouri, tare da inna, uba, wanda ya fahimci ta luwanta lokacin da ta kasance 7
Musa : Uwana sun kasance kusa da kullun, amma, ba shakka, akwai irin wannan lokaci a turɓali, lokacin da na ƙi mahaifiyata. Yanzu ita ce a gare ni - goyan baya na gaske, koyaushe kusa. Ina son ta.
Lauren A gare ni, more more mamaki ne cewa iyayena sun fice fiye da yadda mahaifina shi ne. Ina ganin yana da kyau ga ɗana, ya girma da kakanni biyu, bai san cewa akwai wani abu na musamman game da shi ba. Mahaifina bai kara girma ba fiye da abokin tarayya, Sonan yana girma, kuma yana da daidai a rayuwarsa kamar yadda kakanni.
VAESSA, ya girma a cikin Virginia tare da mahaifiyarta da mahaifiyarta, wanda ya yarda da kishiyarsa lokacin da ta kasance 28
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A gare mu da 'yar'uwarmu, da ji ya fi m cewa muna kwance tsawon rai fiye da yadda yake nuna Onicip na Uba.
Darhiki, ya kawo a cikin Zaman Zamani, California, Mama biyu da Uba
Zan iya cewa na rayu kewaye da Lesbian a koyaushe kuma a gare ni ya kasance al'ada. Ina da ƙwaƙwalwar mara ma'ana, yayin da na saurari kiɗan a rediyo kuma ba zato ba tsammani gane cewa mai yi da alama alama yana yin waka game da wasu irin jima'i ɗaya.
Mccen, ya rayu a cikin Lake Lake, Michigan, a cikin gidan mama biyu
Mutane koyaushe zasu tambaye ni: "Mecece su? Me ya yi kama? ", Kuma ni, sune kawai muke. Basu da magana da clays ko tutar bakan gizo a gidan. Muna kama da ban sha'awa a wannan ma'anar.
Diana, ya girma a cikin Osining, New York, tare da inna, wanda ya fahimci luwanta lokacin da ta yi nazari a kwaleji
Baba ta ce idan ni da kaina ban kira shi tattaunawa ba, da zai kasance yana zaune duk rayuwata, ɓoye abubuwan ɓoye. Da alama yana tunanin ba zai gaya wa kowa ba.
Lucas, an kawo shi a cikin Sansesville, Chororida, mahaifin diluriya da mahaifiyar dilute, wanda ya fahimci daidaituwa lokacin da yake 15
Kasancewar mahaifiyata 'yar Lesbian ne, amma na kasance mai sauƙi a gare ni, saboda haka na tayar da ni cewa na ɗauki duk mutane. Ba wani abu bane, amma ba tin ba. Idan lamarin ya zama mafi muni ga mahaifiyata, idan Lesbian ya yi wahala fiye da yanzu don ita, Ina tsammanin zan ba da hankali ga gwagwarmayarta.
Karen, ya girma a Kudu Oregon tare da mahaifinsa da mahaifiyarsa, wanda ya fahimci kusancinta lokacin da Karen yana cikin ashirin
Kwarewa da rayuwa a New York ya sa mani mai masaukin baki. Ya zama mafi sauƙi a gare ni in yi magana game da shi. Inda na girma, ba wanda ya ce game da irin wannan. Amma a nan kusan kowa, wanda na samu, ɗan kishili da kowa yayi magana game da wannan kuma yana da girma.
Source: Theatlantic.com.