Wucewa ta cibiyar shopping guda sau da yawa, kula da alamun talla. Add yadda suka canza shekara da ta gabata, shekara biyu, uku. Nawa sabbin shagunan sayar da kayayyaki, hukumomin tafiye-tafiye, masu gunjini sun buɗe? Kuma nawa tsofaffin wuraren rufe? Hoto, kuma a wasu lokuta, rashin fahimta shine alamun zamaninmu. Wurin gudu: Lokacin da kuka ɗauki duk ranar ba zai iya fahimta ba, me ya sa.
Wasu alamun suna maye gurbin wasu, wasu ma'aikata suna zuwa, wasu - tafi. Duk abin da sauransu na biyu ne, kowane minti daya. Wace dangantaka ce a wannan duniyar da sauri ta sami hakkin rayuwa? Duk abin da ke kusa da shi ne mai rauni, na bakin ciki da sauri.
Dangantaka ta wacce rabi na biyu yake kusa, a daki na gaba - mai gamsarwa. Idan kun riga kun zo cikin rayuwar yau da kullun kuma na dogon lokaci tare, zaku iya nutsuwa a cikin wannan ƙayyadadden.
Dangantaka a nesa wani abu ne. Hadaddun da yawa ba za a iya fahimta ba. Mutane sun yi imani da cewa gina dangi tare da mutum wanda na ɗaris, dubunnan kilomita jarirai ne hakan ya wuce gaskiya. Amma idan akwai ƙarfi mai ƙarfi, fahimtar juna?
Haka kuma a matsayin sahihan bukatun aure yana ɗaukar nasa, kaɗan ne ta ɗan ɗan sani cewa ƙaunar tana yiwuwa a nesa. Don yanke hukunci game da tsawarsa yana da wahala, saboda akwai wasu abubuwa daban-daban. Wani ya isa ya hada aiki a Kanada da dangi a Rasha. Wata kuma ba zai iya rayuwa cikin natsuwa ba har da gaskiyar cewa aiki a wani yanki, gidan yana birni.
Yanke shawara tare da sha'awarku. Zai yi kyau sosai, kuna shirye don gaskiyar cewa abokin aikin yana shirye don dogara ba tare da yiwuwar "dubawa". Yi magana da shi game da begen ci gaba da dangantakarku, game da abin da zai zama United, kuma kada ku raba. Misali, hutu mai girgizawa, wanda zuwa wa kuma sau nawa zai zo. Yi magana game da komai ya damu da fargabar da ke fuskantar. Idan ka zahiri tsara matsala ko tambaya, to, ka fahimci ka, kuma daidai da, nemi wani bayani tare da sauri.
Ribobi: Akwai koyaushe sabon abu, ƙanshin sabo a cikin dangantaka, sabon bayani. Za'a iya ciyar da lokacin kyauta kada a shirya pacakes, amma a yoga ko dacewa. Idan kuna son hawa, to ƙaunataccenku shine kyakkyawan dalili don tafiya da ƙari.
Cons: Wani lokacin kuna son kusancin da ke bi yayin da babu abokin tarayya kusa da, wani yanki na rashin amana ("kuma yaya yake a cikin wasu tambayoyi?