Shin kun san yadda tatsuniyar ta kasance ta bambanta? Idan muna magana ne game da tiyata, yana nufin yawancin har yanzu ya yi imani da batun bayyana. Kuma idan muna magana ne game da stereotype, da yawa daga cikin mu kawai suke yin kamar. Domin ya fi dacewa.
Mun tsaga masks, 'yan mata!1. Dukansu ne kawai daga gare mu da kuma wajibi (stereotype)
Yana cikin ma'anar jima'i. A'a, mu, hakika, a Inertia zamu iya sanar da irin wannan 'yar. Amma sautin ba mai yiwuwa bane tabbatacce. A zahiri, mata suna doguwar sasanninta sun yi dogon yin raye cewa wani mutum, sai su ce, Yanzu ya tafi. Yana da, idan farashinsa, don haka yana kan tankuna da sabon saiti na laima. Haƙiƙa, mutumin ya yi hankali. Sanin cewa mace ta zamani tana da ƙofar - gogewar, fice - uku. Kuma ya lissafa ingantacciyar fitina, cewa kuna da lokaci zuwa kwace, yi aure don wani da kisan aure. Kuma abin da zai yi da ku daga gare ku, Kaias.2. Ba su ji tsoro ba (labari)
A cikin wannan mu, kuma gaskiya ta yi imani. Da kyau, a cikin mu waɗanda ba sa aiki a cikin ƙungiyar maza kuma ba shi da wani ɗakin maƙwabtoyi don 'yan'uwansu dubu arba'in. A zahiri, babu kaka kaka a ƙofar ba ta rarraba bayanan da Sveta karuwai ne, a irin wannan saurin, ba zan iya ɓoye irin wannan mahimmin bayani daga aboki mafi kyau ba. "3. Sun yi mafarkin kwafin mahaifiyarsu (stereotype)
Ba mu da hankali (da kyau, da kyau, sakin gaske, amma ba duka ba ne kuma ba duka ba ne) kuma kuyi tsammani wasu samari, a kan harka, a kan wani nesa nahiyar. Saboda haka, muna lura da yadda yaron da mahaifiyarsa take sadarwa. Idan yaron yayi kyau da biyayya, muna wasa da kwafin mahaifiyata. Domin mun yi baƙin ciki ne wajen sake karbar keken.4. Ba su damu da cewa an kama mu (stereotype)
Tabbas tabbata. Abin da ya sa muke tafiya ranar, saka mafi kyau nan da nan.5. maza suna ƙin siye (tiyata)
Mun yi imani da shi, saboda maza sun yi daidai, suna sanya kyakkyawan ilimin kimiyyar lissafi a gaban wani cibiyar cin kasuwa. Sun yaudare mu! Gwajin da ya faru lokacin da ka shigar da Ma'aikatar Kayayyakin Maji kuma ka ga yadda mutane suke zube a gaban madannin gungumomi biyu. Yada, dole ne in faɗi, ƙarin abubuwa fiye da ƙwararren maƙasudin. Da kuma kwanon jirgin ruwa sobs: "Da gaske ka tafi, sosai, ba don neman tare da kusancin lu'u-lu'u ba."6. Namiji ya kamata ya sami kusurwa na gida don kawar da datti (stereotype)
Muna da karamin bincike anan, kuma ya juya cewa babu wata mace mai rai daga wadanda suka amsa sun ga irin wannan mutumin bai taba rayuwa ba. A lokaci guda, 100% na wadanda suka amsa sun yarda cewa sau ɗaya, kuma wani kuma da aka zaɓa ya kasance don zaɓaɓɓensu na Srach ne. Wato, kawai muke yi kamar. Gama mu talakawa ne, da gidajensu suna da kunya, a nan kuna jin mugunta, ku bi ni da shan shayi.7. Gurmushi sun fi son blondes (tamth)
Mun yi imani da shi, saboda ku kanamu kanmu suna la'akari da blondes na kyawawan ganyayyaki. Kuna iya jayayya, kodayake, gaskiya - ɗan farin mai launin shuɗi ne a cikin wata goge. Amma wannan gaba ɗaya ne kuma cikakke mai dafa abinci na kamemu: maza suna ganin mafi girma, kimanta dukkan hadaddun matsalar zuwa daga ƙirjin zuwa muryar muryar.8. Idan kun yi barci a ranar farko, zai jefa ku (stereotype)
A cikin zurfin rai, mu, hakika, san cewa ba haka bane - masu aure suna zagaye dubban. Amma ana kare mu na psyche, suna bayyana - suna cewa, jariri, ba mai ruri ba, kawai kun yi barci a ranar farko, a nan kawai sai a sake yin ringing. Babu wani daga cikin kwayoyin cuta ya gaya maka - bai kira ba, saboda baku san yadda ake yin busa.9. Wajibi ne don yin kwaikwayon (na)
To, ba zato ba tsammani bai yi tunanin cewa ni na fridrid. Misali mai tsauri yana biyan rayuwar jima'i ga matan da suka gabata shekaru ɗari da dubu hamsin. Sabili da haka, maimakon gaya bakin "kuma mu gwada wannan," 'yan mata suna aiki suna yin famfo da wasan su na aikatawa. Dangane da haka, bayan jima'i, saurayin ya tafi mai maganganun maganganu ya bijirewa da baya (a'a, likita, budurwa tana zuwa gidan wanka don kammala gidan (kuka).10. Boys ba su kuka (stereotype)
Sakahuwa, mutuminsa (ba na yanzu ɗaya ba - ya zo da baya ga komai. A lokaci guda, muna yin kamar cewa mun yi imani da "yara maza ba su kuka." Me? Da kyau, saboda ya dace da mu don kiran "dabbobi masu wahala" da taimako a kusurwa tare da idanun raunin Lani. Kuma ba ku yi kuka gaba, dabba ba shi da haɗari.