Ba za a yi labarai ba ga kowa da abokin tarayya, a cikin ran wanda Royayyar soyayya take da sumbata sau da yawa. Daga taɓawa mai haske game da lebe zuwa kunci ga Super-Arshan Faransanci sumbata ... Amma wasu mata ba sa fahimtar yadda za su gane yayin da ƙaunataccen ya sumbace su a goshi.
"A sumbata a goshi tana nuna karfi na tunani," in ji Laurel Steinberg, likita na Falsafar, Cohselopy, Clinicererapist. Wannan ba gaisuwa bane ko kuma jan hankali ne wanda ba a san shi ba, maimakon haka wannan alama ce da ba ta watsa wani abu mai zurfi ba.Bari mu ba da dalilai shida da yasa mutum zai iya sumbace goshin.
1. Ma'aurata suna da alaƙa sosai
Kiss a goshi daga abokin soyayya yayi magana game da wani abu gaba daya fiye da abin da aka cocicks cikin kunne a cikin ɗakin kwana. "Duk da yake sumbata a kan lebe na jan hankalin jima'i, sumbata a goshi yana nufin kusanci na dangantakar dangantakar," ya ba da bayani Steinberg.
Abin da ya sa iyaye ne ko iyayen kakaninsu suna sumbace goshin - wannan alamar alama ce ta ƙaunar tausayawa.
2. Abokin da yake so ya sumbaci rai
A zahiri, akwai ainihin gardantawa da gaske daga mahimmancin ra'ayi game da abin da ya sa sumbata a goshi yana haifar da zafi a ciki. Jin zafi da matsin wani leɓen wani a goshin wani a goshin yana karfafa glandon prycoidal wanda ke nuna sunadarai da kuma daukar hankali. Wannan abokin wasan kwaikwayon a asalin yana iya sumbace tunanin ƙaunataccen, ra'ayoyin da ta faɗo, kuma ita ba jikin mutum ba ne.3. Mace ba kawai sexy abu bane
Babu matsala, wannan aboki ne wanda bai gani ba daga kindergarten - idan wani mutum ya sumbace budurwa a goshin sa, zaku iya tabbata cewa shi a lokaci guda yana tunani game da ita (har ma da mafi yawan Gargajiya) jiki. "A sumbata a goshi tana nuna cewa matar tana dauke ba abu kawai wani abu ne na jima'i ba," in ji Steinberg. Wannan mai tausayi ne, kuma ba wata hanyar sexy ga abokin tarayya don bayyana ado da girmamawa ga matarsa.
4. abokin aiki kuma yana son jin soyayya
"Abokan hulɗa yakan canza kyawawan halaye da suke so su samu," sun bayyana Steinberg. Da wuya magana, idan wani mutum a hankali ya sumbaci mace a goshin sa, yana fatan cewa za ta kuma amsa soyayya.5. Jan hankali na jima'i ba ya nan
Idan abokin tarayya na sumbata kawai a goshi, yana iya nufin cewa sha'awar jima'i a cikin dangantakar tana zuwa ga raguwa. Koyaya, yana da alaƙa da abin da ke faruwa tsakanin duka. Idan yarinyar ba ta da tabbacin abin da ke faruwa a dangantakarta, yana da daraja a gwada leɓunsa a ƙarƙashin sumbata kuma ganin abin da zai faru na gaba.
Idan an cire abokin tarayya ko da alama ba shi da hankali, lokaci yayi da za a yi game da abin da ya faru. Kuma idan bayan wannan zai bi da ban kwana a goshin daga cikin kashin baya, yana iya nufin ya / ta kashe lokaci cikakke, amma ba ya son ƙarin dangantaka.
6. Abokin aure "na murnar nasara", imani da cewa ya yi sa'a da samun irin wannan matar
Lokacin da kuka sami abokin tarayya tare da ji na daban, ainihin nasara ne na gaske, bayan wannan ma'anar nasara na iya bayyana.
Wataƙila wannan shine dalilin da yasa hotuna da memes tare da sumbata a goshin sun zama sananne a cikin Instagram. "Don tabbatar da cewa wani ya ɗauki ka da halinka yana da matukar muhimmanci ga kanku, babban nasara ne, kuma mutane suna alfahari da nuna cewa za su iya nuna cewa za su iya nuna," in ji bakin.