Psychologist ne na psystemporist ya kasance canji biyar, inda kowannensu yana da abin da ya dace. Saninsu game da su, zaku iya hana kafircin ƙaunarka, kawai mafi kyawun ilimin ku.
Treason "Romantic"
Ga wannan nau'in hasubai da waɗanda ba su ɗauka nauyin rayuwar rayuwa, amma cike da motsin zuciyarmu, yawancin maganganun wuraren shakatawa. Halin ba daidai ba ne ga irin wannan nau'in jariri, wanda koyaushe ke motsawa cikin neman wani abu mafi kyau.
Amma ga litattafan shakatawa, galibi suna samun mutanen da ke neman irin wannan dangantakar, kuma kawai karamin adadin mutane ne a cikinsu da nufin.
Bayanan shakatawa musamman guda guda - Dukkanin nishaɗi suna mai da hankali a cikin irin wannan dangantakar - wani sabon yanayi, sabbin mutane, duk matsaloli ta atomatik ta kasance cikin wani birni. Mutane na iya samun yanci gabaɗaya a ƙarƙashin aikin wasu abubuwan Incognito. Za a kammala soyayya a ƙarshen hutu, kuma babu wanda zai sani game da dangantakar.
Tafiya shi a matsayin zanga-zangar
Irin wannan cin amanar ta faru ne a lokuta inda abokin tarayya ya motsa sha'awar yin famfo ta zaɓa. Sau da yawa, irin kafirci ba a cika ba, ba kwa da lokaci-lokaci, amma a fili yake - mutum da gangan yana neman faɗakarwa ga aljihunan tari.
Ka'idodin wannan barazanar cewa bayan an kammala, kuma yana canza duk wani alhakin abokin tarayya wanda "ya kawo" ga irin wannan jihar.
Takarya a matsayin hanyar kammala dangantakar
Irin waɗannan yanayin suna lokacin da dangantakar ta gaji, amma dalilai suna yin amfani da su don kammala su, a'a. Sau da yawa yakan faru ne cewa mahalarta na biyu ba ya san cewa komai yana da kyau sosai, saboda a cikin yanayin al'ada ana iya magance shi ta hanyar bangarori masu zuwa, idan babu abin da ba za a iya gyara shi ba. Amma idan ya yanke shawarar kawo karshen komai kuma bai fada cikin tattaunawar ba, ya fi sauki a gare shi ya yi cin hadaya.
Yana da ban dariya ne, amma har ma da gajiya da dangantaka kuma yana son dakatar da su, ƙafdarawar da aka ayyana shi ma baya son daukar nauyin abin da ke faruwa, don haka a cikin fatan cewa abokin da yake koya game da komai kuma zai fara a cikin rata. Wannan nau'in cin amana yawanci son kai ne da kuma mazinaci waɗanda ke neman guje wa rikice-rikice da rashin jin daɗi a kowane farashi.
Bayar da hankali sakamakon fadakarwa na jima'i
Wannan rukunin ya hada da cin nasara tare da halartar uwaye na halaye masu sauƙi. A wannan yanayin, muna magana ne game da mata na yau da kullun, wanda zai sami uzurin kafirci. Ga wasu surar jima'i magani ne, ba tare da abin da ba za su iya rayuwa ba, ga wasu ita ce hanyar tabbatar da kai. Amma duk abin da ainihin dalilin abin da ke faruwa ba shi da ciki.
Kuma a kusa da mutum-wakar sex ya fi tsada - ba zai gyara shi riga, kuma rassan da rassan da rassan zasu zama ƙaho na abokin tarayya ba.
Tafiya shi don jawo hankalin abokin tarayya
Kuma wannan ita ce tayar da tayar da tayar da gaske ga dukkan, a sama an gabatar da ita, kuma babbar tambaya ita ce ko cin amanarta tana buɗe ko rufe. Gaskiya ne, a kowane hali, mai saiti zai ci gaba da kasancewa a cikin asara. Idan ana buɗe hasashen, to lokacin da abokin tarayya ya koya game da abin da ke faruwa, sai ya rage duk hankalin sa, amma ba zai adana dangantaka ba, maimakon haka, akasin haka. Tare da bacin rai na sirri, abokin aikin ba zai san komai ba, ba zai jawo hankalin hankalinsa ba kuma to menene ma'anar?
Wadanda suke so su jawo hankalin mai ƙauna, masana ilimin halayyar mutum ba da shawarar kada su ci gaba da irin wannan barazanar. Don "farka" abokin tarayya zai zama mara kyau mara kyau wanda zai haifar da kishi.
Amma wannan shawara tana da mutum kuma ya dogara da halaye na mutumin. Idan abokin tarayya yana da kishi sosai, alal misali, to, waɗannan halayen zai faɗi kawai ta, zai haifar da tsokanar da zai iya tsokani hutu. Saboda haka, har ma a cikin yanayin flirting a gefe ya cancanci yin taka tsantsan da farawa tare da ƙananan "Dosages".