Loveauna na iya zama ɗaya daga cikin mafi ban sha'awa, ƙarfi da canzawa game da gogewa da mutum zai iya gogewa. Wannan jin yana canza kowa kamar ciki da waje, a kowane matakin. Lokacin da wani ya fada cikin ƙauna, halayensa canzawa ne.
Koyaya, wannan jin yana da yawa gudu, kuma daga baya ya bar mutum "sober da mafi munin" lokacin da kwararar motsin rai ya ragu. Ainihin, mutum ya dawo wannan lokacin a rayuwarsa, wanda ya kasance kafin ya ƙaunace shi.Don haka, menene kimiyyar zamani ta ce game da ƙauna.
1 soyayya
Duk yana farawa tare da ainihin wutar da ke jujjuya harshen wuta - kuma ana kiran wannan ƙauna. A zahiri, yana da kwarara neurotransmits, wanda, a fili, "mamaye" a cikin dare, yana yin magana da juna a rana da sauransu. Abin sha'awa, kamar yadda ake ganin, wasu mutane ne kawai za su iya haifar da irin wannan a cikin wani mutum, saboda gaskiyar cewa "akwai wani abu sabon abu kuma ya dace da su." Mai binciken mai binciken John Gottman a cikin aikinsa "ka'idodin Soyayya" da'awar cewa mutane dole ne su ji wani ƙanshi da jin "daidai" don kunna kwararar neurotransmiters a cikin kwakwalwar su. A takaice dai, ba kowa bane zai iya haifar da wannan jin, kuma wannan yana buƙatar wasu fasaloli a cikin mutum. A zahiri, masana kimiyya yanzu basu san abin da yake ba, amma an san cewa akwai abubuwan da ke haifar da ƙauna.
2 phenethylamine
Feneetlamine, kuma aka sani da Pea, wani fili ne wanda aka samo a cikin yanayi kuma ana samarwa a kwakwalwar ɗan adam. Feneethllamine hydrochloride, ko phenethilamin hcl, an buɗe a bayyane a cikin ƙasashe da yawa. Abin da ke ban sha'awa, Fenethamin a zahiri ne mai iya ƙarfafa tsarin juyayi, don haka idan wani ya taɓa ɗauka yayin ƙauna - ya amsa da gaske a ƙarƙashin "ƙimar cutar kanjamau". Pheromones sune sunadarai waɗanda aka sanya su ta kwayoyin halitta don ƙarfafa amsawar wasu kwayoyin. Yana da tare da cewa tururuwa sadarwa, kuma mutane suna tattaunawa da juna a matakin jima'i, har ma da magana da kalma. Haɗin waɗannan sinadarai ƙaƙƙarfan hadaddiyar giyar da ke da alhakin hadin gwiwar gaba daya da mutane suke ji idan ya fara fada cikin soyayya da wani.3 dehydroepyridosterone
Dehhydroepangerandrosternone kuma ana kiranta DHEA kuma wani abu ne mai ƙarfi, wanda ke da hannu a cikin kwakwalwa, lokacin da mutum ya fara fada cikin ƙauna da wani. Wannan steroid ne, kuma hordmone na yau da kullun, wanda a cikin kanta ba karamin, amma ana iya canzawa zuwa wasu hormones da yawa mai karfi tasiri a jiki. Dhea ne na yau daphrodisac wanda ke ƙaruwa da jima'i. Ana siyar da shi a wurare da yawa a matsayin ƙari wanda ba takardar ba da izini ba saboda wannan dalili. Dehhydroepiandrosteron "hanzarta tsarinsa a kowane matakai, ciki har da tsarin garkuwarsa, wanda a zahiri taka rawa mai ban sha'awa cikin ƙauna, da ƙwaƙwalwar ajiya, maida hankali da ƙarfin fahimta.
4 oxyticin
Oxyttocin, ɗayan shahararrun hormones da suka shafi gaba ɗaya cikin tsarin jin daɗin ji, a halin yanzu ana yin nazarin su saboda tasirin kwakwalwa (haɗin da hancin alade da amincewa tsakanin mutane). Oxyttocin ba wai kawai ya yi kyau ba hoton tunani, ya juya mutum a mafi kyau a cikin hasken halittun. Hakanan ana samar da shi yayin daukar ciki kuma ta bushe da fata. Oxyttocin a zahiri yana canza ra'ayin sauran mutane, yana haifar da tunani game da wasu mafi kyau, kuma yana taka rawa a cikin mutane da ba su so. Oxyttocin ya fara gudana cikin kwakwalwa musamman a cikin adadi mai yawa yayin jima'i, wanda ke taimaka wa kafa dangantakar amincewa da abokin tarayya. Wannan tasirin yana da makonni kaɗan bayan kowane ƙauna na ƙauna kuma yana da ƙarfi musamman a cikin sabon dangantaka.5 Estrogen
Estrogen yawanci ba al'ada ce da aka tuna dangane da jima'i da kwanan wata, amma tabbas yana taka rawa a cikin gabaɗaya "giyar kwangilar kwayar halitta wacce ke cike da kwakwalwa bayan da fara sabon hulda. Estrogen haƙiƙa tana taimakawa wajen samun yanayin da ake so kuma an kunna shi a cikin mahimman abubuwa lokacin da mutum ya sami wani mai kyau. Ana samar da maza da mata da maza a adadi daban-daban (mata suna da matakin da ke sama), suna daidaita yanayin wannan baƙon da ƙauna da ƙauna ga wani.
6 Vasopressin
Vasopressin wani mummunan abu ne mai ban sha'awa, wanda ke taka rawa a cikin monogy na biyu, yana kawo kusa da masoya da ƙirƙirar haɗi da ƙirƙirar haɗi tsakanin su. Wannan aikin yana aiki musamman a cikin maza. Vasopressin, a hade tare da oxytocin, ya ƙaddamar da alamun kwakwalwa ga kwakwalwa, da yake magana cewa kuna buƙatar "kwantar da hankali" da mata kawai, wanda shine abin ƙauna ɗaya, wanda shine abin ƙauna ɗaya, wanda shine abin ƙauna ɗaya, wanda shine abin ƙauna ɗaya, wanda shine abin ƙauna ɗaya, wanda shine abin ƙauna ɗaya, wanda shine abin ƙauna ɗaya. Nazarin da ke da ban sha'awa da aka yi a Sweden ya nuna cewa Rs3 334, wanda ko ta yaya ko ta yaya ko ta yaya kuma yana iya ƙayyade matakin da aka makala ga sha'awoyi da babban rabo. Mutumin na iya samun kofe ɗaya ko biyu na Rs3 334 (ko kuma kada ya kasance kwata-kwata). Nazarin ya nuna cewa wadanda ke da wasu kwafin biyu na kwayoyin halittar halittar da suka fi so ga monogamy da "daidaita." Sun fi dacewa su yi aure, kuma suna da ƙasa da ƙarancin aminci da ƙauna ga abokan aikinsu. Maza ba tare da kwafin guda na Rs3 334 ba, akasin haka, ba da fifiko ga aure, wajibai da daidaitawa. Maza waɗanda ke da kwafin guda ɗaya kawai, suna wani wuri a tsakiya tsakanin waɗannan ƙungiyoyi daban-daban. Sabili da haka, tushen kwayoyin da kuma matakin kwayoyin halitta na iya tasiri sosai kan yadda ake ƙauna.7 muguwar sha'awa
Chemicals a cikin kwakwalwa na da United ne, tabbatar da cewa Dr. Helen Fisher, masanin masani ne daga Jami'ar Rosgers, ya kira matakai uku na soyayya: sha'awa, jan hankali da kauna. Tsarin yana farawa ne da sha'awa, wanda yafi halin babban matakin testosterone da estrogen a jiki. Wannan bangare yana faruwa ba tare da buƙatar takamaiman abokin tarayya ba, kuma kusan kowane abokin tarayya yana haifar da hakan. Abubuwan sunadarai suna cike da kwakwalwa kuma suna yin wani mutum suna nema na abokan tarayya, mata aboki da yawa, kuma don neman wani wanda zai iya zuwa mataki na gaba a cikin tsarin da zai iya zuwa zuwa mataki na gaba a cikin tsarin da zai iya zuwa zuwa mataki na gaba a cikin tsari. Tunanin neman abokin tarayya ya mamaye kusan duk abin da mutumin ya yi.
8 jan hankali
Yana kan wannan matakin cewa sha'awar fara zafi tsakanin mutane biyu. Lokaci na jan hankali shine lokacin da cikin ƙauna ya fara mayar da hankali kan mutum ɗaya musamman. Sau da yawa, a lokaci guda, cikin ƙauna ya zama damu, koyaushe kuna tunani game da sha'awar sa. A cikin wannan tsarin aiwatar da soyayya, dopamine da adrenaline kawai "rami", yana ba da jin rashin jituwa da kuma cika makamashi. Masana ilimin halayyar mutum ba sa la'akari da wannan rashin daidaituwa, kamar yadda mutane da yawa suke yi sau da yawa. Suna jayayya cewa ana buƙatar wannan lokaci don fitar da ƙauna. Kamar yadda kuka sani, "ƙaunar Slepa", kuma mutum cikin ƙauna yana ganin kyawawan soyayyarsa da marasa galihu, aƙalla na ɗan lokaci. Mutane da yawa ba su ji dadin lokacin da wannan matakin ke wucewa ba, amma masana sun ce yana da mahimmanci a matsayin "hanyar haɗi" zuwa mataki na gaba.9 Haɗe 9
Abin da aka makala shine kashi na ƙarshe na ƙauna yayin da dangantaka da abokin tarayya ta je wurin zurfin. A karo na dopamine da adrenaline daga cikin girgije da oxyttotocin ya zo don maye gurbinsa, da kuma "acressin yana ba da alama ga gaskiyar cewa lokaci ya yi shakku ga cewa lokaci ya yi. Yana da ban sha'awa a lura cewa a wasu nau'ikan duniyar dabbobi, ana iya kwatanta wannan zamani na yankin ", wanda a cikin miji na iya idan aka kwatanta da" gina gida gida "ta hannun iyali. A wata ma'ana, abin da aka makala koyaushe yana gabatarwa a rayuwar mutane azaman bayyanar ƙauna. Tun lokacin da yake yaro, an ɗaure yaron dangi da abokai. Wannan, ba shakka yana canzawa a tsawon rayuwarsa, lokacin da mutane daban-daban suka bayyana a ciki, wanda a ƙarshe ya ƙare da abin da aka makala ga ƙaunataccen. Sannan abin da aka makala ga yara ya bayyana.
Psychoanlyst Sigmundaly Freud ya bayyana tsari na ciki cikin kauna, ta hanyar da mahimmancin mutanen da suke ƙauna da kuma game da abin da suke kulawa suna karuwa. A bangare ne mai mahimmanci na ƙauna mai ƙauna, wanda ke ƙara ƙarfafa mahimmancin mutane, kodayake sau da yawa yana faruwa gaba ɗaya ba tare da sani ba. A wannan matakin, mutane suna daidaita da hukunci, dabi'u, tunani, ayyuka, ayyuka, ayyuka da sauran juna. A wannan matakin ne abin da aka makala ga mutum ya zama mai ƙarfi wanda har ma da ƙananan abubuwa masu daɗi suna da alaƙa. Xix kararren ilimin falsafar karni Friedrich Ietzsche ya yi jayayya cewa babban abin da mutum ke karfafa abubuwa da muhimmanci a gare shi, kuma idan ba ya zama wani bangare na nasawa na mutum. Gaskiya ne, ta hanyar aiwatar da cikin cikin gida, mutane biyu suna kirkiro guda jigon ra'ayoyi guda, tunani, sha'awa, sha'awa, da bege, da fatan da za su iya gina rayuwa ta gaba.